Hello, Thanks for using healthcaremagic. The condition is known as premature ejaculation in english It can be treated or controlled with the help of behavioral methods and the drugs.. The behavioral techniques you have to practice during sex and before it. They yield results only after considerable effort and do not expect the benefit from the first day.... your partner can also help u by participating in the behavioral intervention..these techniques are very difficult to explain here in detail…material is easily available on the internet. U can google the names of techniques, I am about to mention. Techniques are: 1. Squeeze technique 2. Start- stop method 3. Interruption technique You can perform these behavioral methods, they are easy to understand.. Premature ejaculation can also be controlled by drugs.. SSRI antidepressant drugs cause delayed ejaculation as a side effect, and this side effect is used therapeutically in the treatment of premature ejaculation. At this moment see a sexual specialist to get it treated properly. He will guide you about most suitable treatment for you. I like to assure you that it does not need length and costly treatment. It is a simple problem which can be treated effectively with just a single pill per day. Thanks and regards