My husband and I learned today that I ve had a miscarriage. We tried to ask the staff at the early pregnancy unit that I needed a scan 2 days ago when I started to notice some bleeding but just advised me to monitor myself at home. We eventually convinced the unit to scan me today and learned that I have to make a decision what management to take. I am still confused. I am a healthy woman with no other health issue apart from being 40 and almost everyone in my family and close friends seems to imply that the best option is the surgical management. I ve never had any surgical procedure or anaesthesia. I am scared. Please give me advice.