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How Does One Proceed In The Relationship?

Am a girl of 22 yrs old,i have a boyfriend who i love so much and i want to remain a virgin till i get married, he agreed wit me initially but as time goes on he starts asking me of sex, am comfused,whenever am with him am feeling sex, i dnt know if i should give up and have sex with him or remain a virgin. Am 22 years old,weighs 63kg,no medical history,AA Genotype
Tue, 8 Jul 2014
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General & Family Physician 's  Response
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Well, its your own personal decision as to when and with whom you want to lose your virginity and if you have decided not before marriage then stay with it.If you think you should lose it ,its your decision too but then don't do it out of force or under some pressure of some future promises,you should do it only when you feel it right,and you must use proper protection while you do it.
If you have any other queries you can reply back or you can close the discussion and rate me.
Regards,
Dr. Rohit Singh
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Psychologist Dr. Rachna K Singh's  Response
At this point, its important for me to know for how long you and your boyfriend have been in a relationship.
Firstly, you need to realize that if he has been forcing you , even after knowing that you're uncomfortable , you should probably take a step back. He needs to respect your opinions too and if he's not, then that means his intentions are not right for obvious reasons.

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General & Family Physician Dr. Jaydeep Tripathy's  Response
Hello. Thanks for posting your query.
In today's modern generation, pre-marital sex has become really common, and physical relationship is a very important part in every relationship. There are times when a couple goes through a rough patch, and once they have sex, their chemistry just comes back.
If you know your boy friend loves you a lot and will marry you, and you love him the same, then there is nothing wrong in having sex with the person, you want to spend your rest of the life with.
It entirely depends on what choice you make. If you're completely against it, then your boyfriend should understand and respect your wishes. This is how a relationship works. If both are adamant, it will eventually lead to a fight and can even make your relationship weaker.
So i suggest you both sit and talk it out.

Feel free to discuss further,
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How Does One Proceed In The Relationship?

Hello and welcome to health care magic Well, its your own personal decision as to when and with whom you want to lose your virginity and if you have decided not before marriage then stay with it.If you think you should lose it ,its your decision too but then don t do it out of force or under some pressure of some future promises,you should do it only when you feel it right,and you must use proper protection while you do it. If you have any other queries you can reply back or you can close the discussion and rate me. Regards, Dr. Rohit Singh