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How Can I Have A Proper Sexual Intercourse?
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I am married before 10 months. Still now final intercourse is not finished. Only foreplay and oral sex is allowed by my wife. She is fearing. Sometimes I forced, but at the time of tension I loose temper. And also I think my sex mood is dropping. . . Me and my wife both were fatty person too. We checked both our health. The result says normal. Only my wife has abnormal periods. What I have to do. . . I am worrying all days. No sleeping properly. Get over tensed.
I am married before 10 months. Still now final intercourse is not finished. Only foreplay and oral sex is allowed by my wife. She is fearing. Sometimes I forced, but at the time of tension I loose temper. And also I think my sex mood is dropping. . . Me and my wife both were fatty person too. We checked both our health. The result says normal. Only my wife has abnormal periods. What I have to do. . . I am worrying all days. No sleeping properly. Get over tensed.
Mon, 16 Jun 2014
Hi,
Welcome to healthcare magic.
I have read the query and understand your concern.Fear in having intercourse initially is seen in many newly married couples,for that you need to develop a strong relationship with her,respect her feelings,talk to her freely about the problem,getting angry and forcing yourself on her will further increase her fear.
Start with doing regular exercise to reduce weight,may be she is fearing because of her body image.Obesity itself can lead to irregularity of periods but if still the periods are not regular consult a gynecologist for finding out the exact cause.Don't worry,as time passes after your continued patience the problem will be resolved.I will suggest psychosexual therapy for her from a therapist if the problem persists for long.
Hope this answers the query.
Regards,
Dr.Tushar Tamboli
Welcome to healthcare magic.
I have read the query and understand your concern.Fear in having intercourse initially is seen in many newly married couples,for that you need to develop a strong relationship with her,respect her feelings,talk to her freely about the problem,getting angry and forcing yourself on her will further increase her fear.
Start with doing regular exercise to reduce weight,may be she is fearing because of her body image.Obesity itself can lead to irregularity of periods but if still the periods are not regular consult a gynecologist for finding out the exact cause.Don't worry,as time passes after your continued patience the problem will be resolved.I will suggest psychosexual therapy for her from a therapist if the problem persists for long.
Hope this answers the query.
Regards,
Dr.Tushar Tamboli
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