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i have been married for a month. but still could not do the intercourse as i find it very painful. please help. i m finding it difficult to have the intercourse as my vagina does not get wet and it pains when he tries to insert. Also his penis size is very big and it is thick too. is it possible that my vaginal opening is too small for him?
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Nothing of this sort. it is a very common problem. should have no apprehension. a foreplay is likely to be helpful. Anxiety will keep u in a vicious cycle where dryness and stiffness/spasm will get aggravated. selected audiovisual stimuli (movies) are helpful. Vaginal lubricants are also the next line of management. In love marraiges this problem is rarely reported because excitement is more and fear/ anxiety is less. So things really lie in mind and not locally.
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How Can I Have Intercourse Without Pain ?
hi, Nothing of this sort. it is a very common problem. should have no apprehension. a foreplay is likely to be helpful. Anxiety will keep u in a vicious cycle where dryness and stiffness/spasm will get aggravated. selected audiovisual stimuli (movies) are helpful. Vaginal lubricants are also the next line of management. In love marraiges this problem is rarely reported because excitement is more and fear/ anxiety is less. So things really lie in mind and not locally.