Hello, I have a question. I will be getting married soon, and my future wife and I are discussing varying sex options. We were wondering about anal sex. Is there a safe way to have anal sex without a condom. She will be on birth control, so thats not a worry, and both of us dont have STD/STI's due to us being abstinate up until we are married. So I'm more concerned about getting a UTI, or could I just pee the E. Coli out afterwards if any got in there, what do you think?