Hi, I've been married 7 yrs now, we had twins through IVF, they are 2. My husband works 12hrs shift 8-8, and I work weekend. We don't have any time together and no sex. I'm fine with it. No interest at all. We argue all the time, everything is a competition for my husband. He does notable the effort to put anything back in its place if I have left it out, let alone pick up his shit. When we are both home, he runs off and goes to the store, everything but be with us all, he seems to be hiding....How should I handle this?