Dear Doactor, I am 57 years old but many frends say I look like 40 years old.I am very concern about my healtha dn never eat meat or smoke .Take a beer bottle once or twice a year whe I gather with friends.My problem is: I do not get any feeling towards my wife amd do not want to have a sexual life. But feel like to go to other women who are beautiful? She is verry unhappya and we are experienceing family problem over this issue. Also as I do not have a job and frastrated over income to have a good live is also a costant problem ? We are Asians. Please give me an advice. thank you very much. Doctor, I am not in a position to pay because I am out of work and survive with state benefits with my two children and wife. If you dont mind answering taking into my situation into consideration kindly do so. Other wise you may ignore.