Thank you for your query.
Ii can understand your concern. There is nothing wrong in ensuring hygiene. It shall be better if you consult the psychologist
who would hear you and your parents and counsel so that there is a congenial atmosphere between you and your parents.
A word of caution would be appropriate. One sitting with the psychologist need not be sufficient to bring out the issues for resolution. So have a little patience.
I hope I have answered your query to your satisfaction.
Wishing you all the best.