Welcome to HCM Forum.
I can imagine what suffering you might be going on.
As per problems written by you and considering your age with cyst
removal operation its most likely that you are in perimenopausal phase.
Perimenopausal means few months period before and after menopause
During this period lot of hormonal
changes happen in body - due to which multiple body pains,Hot flushes,Tender breasts and dry vagina occurs ( this is reason why u experiencing all problem.)
This is absolutely normal phase most of female suffers during perimenopausal stage and will subside after few month. Still for safety purpose please consult to your Gynecologist for routine checkup and if required they can prescribe hormone replacement therapy
Inspite of that after complete cessation of menses symptom persist you can consult to psychiatrist
for symptomatic relief.
Hope it helps.Best regards.