Dear Jimmy, Thanks for posting your query to HCM. The very first thing you have to understand is that Masturbation is neither a reason for any weakness and nor it leads any kind of problem in sex life. Now you should understand the fact that our body makes various secretions in body like you take an example of urine. How long one can hold the urine.. I think not for long period of time, you need to urinate after few hours. The same is true for the semen which is secreted daily by our testes and the important fact is there is no any reservoir for its collection, is temporarily collected in the small tubes. So if the amount exceeds a limit we either masturbate or if we are not masturbating then by nightfall we do have ejaculation which is normal physiological phenomenon. Sometimes the sexual urge is so high that even mere thinking, a very little of excitation or related things can lead to ejaculation. Every men in this world have faced the same events in their youth which you are facing. So kindly relax yourself and don t try to correlate masturbation with any type of sexual problem. As sexual drive as well as sexual satisfaction is controlled by brain so majority of sexual problem arise due to stress and anxiety. So kindly understand the normal processes of life and enjoy it fully. With best of health wishes, Dr Sanjay K Kanodia MD (Dermatology & STD/Venereology)