Hey, i have a question about chalmydia. I have been with my bf since jan. we were together until oct of last year and split up a couple months. we both had a sexual partner in between. a little over a month ago he was having pain urinating and he thought it was a uti . he was tested and they said no. he is now going to see a urlogist. but i was having a different kind of symtoms and i had a bacterial v last year and thought it was that. she said yes but i got tested for everything else. i found out it was chalmydia. So my question is whether or not its possible to have it for 6 to 7 months and it not show up. or does it mean one of us had another sexual partner? Neither one of us had any tests done in the past 7 months either so there was never any postive or negative tests before. i had been tested back in sept because I had got herpes from an ex who was cheating. I am also so confused by this. i know it will go away im picking up meds tomorrow but how long does it take to make a women infertile? i want another child someday and am concerned. Thank you for your time.