Hello
You mentioned that , didn't have anal sex , ONLY KISSING (deep ) but it is not clear ( not mentioned ) whether there was sexual ( vaginal ) intercourse or not .
Didn't mention about
oral sex .
So this reply is based only for kissing:
Although HIV can be isolated typically in low titers from saliva of a small proportion of infected individuals , there is no convincing evidence that saliva can transmit HIV infection , either by KISSING or through other exposure in this way.
So through kissing HIV infection can't be transmitted.
So clearly mention about oral sex and vaginal sex.
Now
throat infection and
muscular pain .
Throat infection may be due to
pharyngitis so take
levofloxacin 750 mg once in day for 5 days .
Also take tylenol 500 mg once or twice in day for 5-7 days .
Still no relief consult a physician and get his opinion.
But I also recommend before marriage get in ELISA TEST for HIV infection confirmation.
Good luck.