Hi there ~ I understand your concerns. I wonder if all your problems are related to constipation, which is easily treated. Eat plenty of vegetables and drink lots of fluids. Also medications, available over the counter like cremaffin syrup and softovac which is a powder form mixed with a warm glass of water drank in the evening can help tremendously. I also think that you may need to see a surgeon if the problem is not getting better with the above advise. I hope this helps. Take care and have a lovely day!