hello friend, it is disappointing to hear that you her husband is not open to change. Remember you cannot change him, but potentially within intervention with you and your family and the other people that are important to him and describing how much that his behavior is affecting your life and your concern for him, he may be open to addressing this problem. Keep in mind that depression
is present and over 90% of alcohol abuse
in people and clearly your husband by her description is an alcoholic. Best of luck with this difficult situation.