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Can my husband find out that I'm not a virgin ?

Dear Doctor I am 24 year old female. I had sex with my boyfriend about a year ago, Now i am getting married to another man, Will he ever get to know about my previou sex with my boy friend. i am worried please help me.
Wed, 21 Mar 2012
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Dermatologist 's  Response
dont worry
he will not able to know about ur previous relation until u tell him.
hymen rupture lead to loss of virginity.
it is not easily detect by general people.
hymen can be rupture by trauma ,cycling ,masturbation etc.
so dont bother about it .
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Dr. Nikul Patel's  Response

1. When there is a thing already done, then not to worry, but forgot all things in your previous life and prepare your self as virgin by mind.

2. your hymen is already ruptured then it may make doubt about your virginity, but you can tell him if he ask you about hymen that it can ruptured by cycling, injury and by athlets.. and you can make prepare any of the cause.

3. You have to make faithful to your future husband and have to act as your first experience..

Trust is a best ever motto in marriage life..

concentrate on it.. do not worry about that and do not twll any reason without asking by him.
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