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Can Masturbation Cause Poor Erection?

Hello , I am 27 old married guy. Last day I went to have sex with wife and it was first time for me. At bed room, first she removed her clothes, she became nude and later I have also removed my all clothes. After seeing her, my penis was not standing properly. It stood up for some moment and I pushed my penis into her vagina but only my penis tip went inside to her vagina and it went down. My penis and again it doesn't standup down. So we didn't have sex. At last my sex was does not completed. I am very tensed, What happen? Please suggest some medicine. Please tell me it is possible to recover?

I don't understand. still why penis is not standing up?

Before 1 day night , I did masturbate.. Is that reason was for that ???

I am much worried about it..
what precaution's should I have to take for this problem???

Please help me
Tue, 11 Mar 2014
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Hi and welcome to HCM. As per your history you are most probably you are having problem in your head rather in your penis. I mean you are tensed and confused which is causing you this problem. This is common during first night to many girls and also boys. In your situation, by far the commonest reason for you to lose the erection during sex is something called performance anxiety. This is when thoughts come into your mind during the course of love-making that are sufficiently distracting and worrying for the reflexes that are necessary to sustain the erection. Talk to your partner about any inner feelings you have, and recruit your partner's help in overcoming the problem. First be very comfortable with your partner and talk to her nicely, then concentrate more on foreplay with the aim of maintaining the erection. You can try this after week or two weeks, take rest for 1 week. Remember one thing masturbation will not cause problem in erection. You can come out of this problem for sure, of above steps wont help please consult a good sexual therapist. All the best

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Can Masturbation Cause Poor Erection?

Hi and welcome to HCM. As per your history you are most probably you are having problem in your head rather in your penis. I mean you are tensed and confused which is causing you this problem. This is common during first night to many girls and also boys. In your situation, by far the commonest reason for you to lose the erection during sex is something called performance anxiety. This is when thoughts come into your mind during the course of love-making that are sufficiently distracting and worrying for the reflexes that are necessary to sustain the erection. Talk to your partner about any inner feelings you have, and recruit your partner s help in overcoming the problem. First be very comfortable with your partner and talk to her nicely, then concentrate more on foreplay with the aim of maintaining the erection. You can try this after week or two weeks, take rest for 1 week. Remember one thing masturbation will not cause problem in erection. You can come out of this problem for sure, of above steps wont help please consult a good sexual therapist. All the best Regards Dr Santosh