Hello, Thanks for the consult... Brief answer, Need not to be worried.... Detailed answer, 1. I seen your query. I am happy to help you further. You already mentioned that you had a kiss for few seconds and also massage with another girl 2 months back 2. Massage without sexual contact will not spread hiv so you need not worry 3. When the girl who you kissed has open injury on the lips or in the mouth then you get a minimum chance of exposure to hiv otherwise there will be no problem if no cut injury 4. Even if you have any doubt then kindly do ELISA Test or confirm it by WESTERN BLOT test at the end of 6 weeks 5. The reason for lymphnode enlargement is due to bacterial infection or viral infection which is caused by cytomegalo virus commonly called as kissings disease Hope this information helps