Hi, for the patients with the pelvic infections, obstretrical problems, gynic problems, it is the only way of examination, other wise only to ask the symptoms and acess the disease.
As it is the first time both of you are facing the examination, feeling absurd.
She might be feeling pain that is why she is feeling discomfort, and emotional reaction. These days the stories of hymen
are cock and bull stories, for girls above the age of 16 the hymen usually ruptures due to several reasons. Thank you.