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33 Yrs Old, Get Frustrated When Trying To Have Sex, Heart Races, Unable To Do It. What Can I Do ?
Hi my name is AAAA. I am 33 years old and still a virgin , when I was young I had a few girls, whenever I tried to have sex I always got frustrated, my hearth would race and I could not do it, I gave up on girls for years, recently I met some one that I really like and she likes me, we did not get to having sex yet, iknow that I will be soon, I am dreading it, I cant sleep at night with the thought that she will run a mile when she sees what a nervous wreck I am and never come near me again, this is so frustrating and depressing. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks AAAAA
Tue, 29 Jan 2013
Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query.
It is likely that the multiple negative experiences with sex has lead on to you have this intense anxiety or phobia regarding future sexual relationships. Since this anxiety is causing you a severe amount of distress and suffering, I suggest that you seek professional help.
There are effective treatment options - in the form of medication or counselling / psychotherapy which will help you overcome your problems. So, I would advise you consult a psychiatrist for a detailed psychological assessment and further treatment.
Wish you all the best.
Regards,
Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar
Consultant Psychiatrist
It is likely that the multiple negative experiences with sex has lead on to you have this intense anxiety or phobia regarding future sexual relationships. Since this anxiety is causing you a severe amount of distress and suffering, I suggest that you seek professional help.
There are effective treatment options - in the form of medication or counselling / psychotherapy which will help you overcome your problems. So, I would advise you consult a psychiatrist for a detailed psychological assessment and further treatment.
Wish you all the best.
Regards,
Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar
Consultant Psychiatrist
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