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Is There Risk Of Contracting HIV Through Frottage And Foreplay With Sucking Of Nipples?
Question: sir /madam
apologies for the explicit language
i am a male in early 40's. i l work in Singapore . recently i visited this karoke bar where i had an engagement with a lady.
1. no insertive or oral sex
2. just foreplay with both of us sucking each other nipples and
3. no lip to lip kissing. only kissing on the cheeks
4. the lady sat on me . we were fully clothed and was gyrating to the music.
5. i had foreplay with her breasts and light kissing on it.
6. i did breifly touched her private area not directly but with her panties on. there was no direct contact between our private organs.
is there any risk. Even remotely
apologies for the explicit language
i am a male in early 40's. i l work in Singapore . recently i visited this karoke bar where i had an engagement with a lady.
1. no insertive or oral sex
2. just foreplay with both of us sucking each other nipples and
3. no lip to lip kissing. only kissing on the cheeks
4. the lady sat on me . we were fully clothed and was gyrating to the music.
5. i had foreplay with her breasts and light kissing on it.
6. i did breifly touched her private area not directly but with her panties on. there was no direct contact between our private organs.
is there any risk. Even remotely
Brief Answer:
No risk of getting HIV.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
There was no penetrative sex with the lady and kissing or playing with breasts and private parts contain no risky activities for HIV. So you need not worry at all because the risk is not there in your case.
Be relaxed, forget about the episode and live your life normally. If any other query is there feel free to ask me again.
Thank You
Regards
No risk of getting HIV.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
There was no penetrative sex with the lady and kissing or playing with breasts and private parts contain no risky activities for HIV. So you need not worry at all because the risk is not there in your case.
Be relaxed, forget about the episode and live your life normally. If any other query is there feel free to ask me again.
Thank You
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Arnab Banerjee
Sir
After i saw ur response i read through many of your responses to questions and i must really appreciate your patience and professionalism. God Bless.
In my conversation with the lady i found that she had a child and was breast feeding her till a short while ago. Though I did not feel any secretion during my interaction but I read somewhere that breast milk is a possible source of transmission. Is there anything of concern here.
Secondly given the absence of any insertive sex (only foreplay) and absence of direct touch of the private parts, is there any way there could be a risk from ur clinical experience.
Thank You
After i saw ur response i read through many of your responses to questions and i must really appreciate your patience and professionalism. God Bless.
In my conversation with the lady i found that she had a child and was breast feeding her till a short while ago. Though I did not feel any secretion during my interaction but I read somewhere that breast milk is a possible source of transmission. Is there anything of concern here.
Secondly given the absence of any insertive sex (only foreplay) and absence of direct touch of the private parts, is there any way there could be a risk from ur clinical experience.
Thank You
Brief Answer:
The possibility is least likely or practically nil.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back and thanks for follow-up.
As you said the nreast milk is potential source of infection but not in your case so no need to think upon or worried and there is no risk of infection by touching or foreplay with private parts without having any insertive activity so just calm down, allay your fear or anxiety and move on happily. The risk of getting HIV is practically zero in this case. Be relaxed and get back to me again if any query or doubt is left.
Thank You
The possibility is least likely or practically nil.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back and thanks for follow-up.
As you said the nreast milk is potential source of infection but not in your case so no need to think upon or worried and there is no risk of infection by touching or foreplay with private parts without having any insertive activity so just calm down, allay your fear or anxiety and move on happily. The risk of getting HIV is practically zero in this case. Be relaxed and get back to me again if any query or doubt is left.
Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Remy Koshy
Sir
Thank You
Kindly permit me to write one last post.
1. Is the breast secretion impacting only for new born kids.
2. I just remembered the lady briefly (maybe 2 to 3 mins) took my penis out of my underwear and just massaged the head with her hand. Again no touching of private parts as she was sitting on my legs when massaging. Is there any risk
3. Apart from hiv infection is there any other sti that i need to look out for.
Finally I am not able to figure out why did I go to such places and involve in such activities. I feel bad but sometimes not able to control my desires.
I am not doing copulation with my wife since the episode and trying to keep away.
Kindly do respond to the points on the post and we can close the consultation.
Thank You
Thank You
Kindly permit me to write one last post.
1. Is the breast secretion impacting only for new born kids.
2. I just remembered the lady briefly (maybe 2 to 3 mins) took my penis out of my underwear and just massaged the head with her hand. Again no touching of private parts as she was sitting on my legs when massaging. Is there any risk
3. Apart from hiv infection is there any other sti that i need to look out for.
Finally I am not able to figure out why did I go to such places and involve in such activities. I feel bad but sometimes not able to control my desires.
I am not doing copulation with my wife since the episode and trying to keep away.
Kindly do respond to the points on the post and we can close the consultation.
Thank You
Brief Answer:
No risk of any other STIs in your case.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back once again.
The breast secretion is impacting largely on infants and the risk with massaging the penis is not there. As per your exposure there is absolutely no risk of any other STIs also so don't feel stressed and no need to keep distance from your wife because you are 100% safe and risk free so live your life normally with the family.
As your friend I will also advice you to stay away from such activities or practices to prevent the future risk of HIV or other STDs and if at all you are not able to control your sexual desires then always use condoms while having sex with other partners. If still any query is there you can ask without hesitation.
Thank You
No risk of any other STIs in your case.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back once again.
The breast secretion is impacting largely on infants and the risk with massaging the penis is not there. As per your exposure there is absolutely no risk of any other STIs also so don't feel stressed and no need to keep distance from your wife because you are 100% safe and risk free so live your life normally with the family.
As your friend I will also advice you to stay away from such activities or practices to prevent the future risk of HIV or other STDs and if at all you are not able to control your sexual desires then always use condoms while having sex with other partners. If still any query is there you can ask without hesitation.
Thank You
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Remy Koshy
Dear Sir Thank You i will take notice of your advise i have tried to present you with as much details as possible and that is why i used all my available follow ups. i will try and resume normal relations with my spouse i wish you well.
Brief Answer:
Yes absolutely.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
I am very happy to hear that you move ahead in life and resume your relations with wife. Be relaxed, forget the past and live your life normally. If you need any help in future also get back to me any time.
Thank You
Yes absolutely.
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
I am very happy to hear that you move ahead in life and resume your relations with wife. Be relaxed, forget the past and live your life normally. If you need any help in future also get back to me any time.
Thank You
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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