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I Engaged With A Lady. There Was No Vaginal,anal Or Oral Sex Do You See Any Risk In This Encounter?

Posted on Wed, 8 Feb 2023

Question: doctor I am In Sydney now where sex work is legal and govt provides free check up every month. i visited a sex place here where I engaged with a lady. there was no vaginal,anal or oral sex. the lady was fully naked and she took a bath. I was dressed at that moment. later on i just foreplay with her and suck her breasts. she actually fingered her vagina and she massaged her breasts post which I sucked her breasts. briefly i took my penis out and massaged it when there was precum i put my pants back. later i massaged her breasts with my hands and after a while sucked her breasts again . she is not lactating as she has grown up children but she had a breast secretion which she said was due to hormonal imbalance. very briefly i touched her vagina and used the same hand on my penis.
she did say that she goes fir monthly check up and would not be allowed to work in case she had an issue. every month the govt agency does the entire blood work on her. do you see any risk in this encounter.

Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (50 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
The risk is very unlikley.

Detailed Answer:
Dear,
The risk in the encounter you had mentioned is very unlikely because licking or massaging over the breasts are no risk actibities for HIV. Further the survival of HIV virus outside the human body in an open environment is very difficult and the virus will die within minutes only so just calm down, forget the episode and live your life normally. For any further query feel free to ask me again.

Thank You.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (7 hours later)

sir thanku. can i take unlikely as practically nil. wht about breast secretion. it was not milk as she is not lactating

Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (8 hours later)

Brief Answer:
No risk for you.

Detailed Answer:
Dear,

Human saliva does not transmit HIV virus so there is no risk in your exposure. Calm down, allay the fear or anxiety and live the life normally. For any further query feel free to ask me again.

Thank You

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj

Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (7 hours later)

sir last question before i close the thread the lady rubbed her vagina and subsequently fondled her breasts. if her precum would have been on her breasts and i sucked at her nipples will it cause any risk. thank u sir

Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (12 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
No risk in such exposure also.

Detailed Answer:
Dear,
If the status of lady is unknown then the risk is already less and such exposure what you had mentioned carries no risk so no need to worry so much. Be relaxed, forget the episode and move on in life happily.

Thank You.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Nagamani Ng

Follow up: Dr. Sunil Jangid (31 hours later)

thnk u sir. may i take that i do not need to go for any testing. i wanted to resume normal relations with my partner. i was initially thinking of doing PCR RNA at 14 days just to relax my mind. do you think it will provide a conclusive result thank u

Answered by Dr. Sunil Jangid (6 hours later)

Brief Answer:
The result will be highly reliable after 14 days.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Sanjaybalachandran,

If you want to go for RNA PCR after 14 days of exposure than definitely go ahead to relax your mind. The result will be highly reliable and surely come as non reactive so just calm down and get back to me with test result.

Thank You

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Remy Koshy