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What Is The Risk Of HIV Infection After Non-penetrative Sexual Activity?

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Posted on Mon, 14 Nov 2016
Question: Next week so im visiting to singapore.first in life time and last.
I want to engage with escort girl for shower bath ,dry humping,nipple sucking and boobs pressing,body massage,hand job and blow job with condoms.for kissing and sucking there will be cloth barrier.
No sex.(Anal,Vaginal and oral sex)
All this activities are safe.
What precautions i should take
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (6 hours later)
Brief Answer:
HIV risk is almost nil with the activities enumerated

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome to HCM.
Thanks for posting your query.
Kissing, sucking of non - lactating breast, boob pressing, body massage, dry humping, Handjob, protected blowjob are safe activities and carry almost nil risk for HIV infection. A good shower and genital wash will give added advantage for your protection. Nothing more is necessary. But don't lie prey yourself for more risky activities
Dr S Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (5 hours later)
Thank for Accepting and answering my question.I liked ur replying in this HCM forum

Thank for ur advice and concern on my health.

I will avoid (blow job, kiss, touching private parts butts, vagina)and also try to avoid hand job.
if not,protected for hand job.scortum covered by boxer on.

1)While shower bathing (or taking shower).she is naked and im on underwear on by wet underwear can rub private parts of her and touching, pressing, and also kissing (boobs ,sucking nipples). Its safe

2)Only Upper part body massage and lower part will be covered by clothes on.(wearing night pants)
if she rubs breast to my upper part(chest,face,mouth).if i have skin warts of neck and bottom eye.its safe
3) dry humping and lower part will be clothes on.(wearing pants)
can squeeze and play with
her boobs and suck nipples on bra on.if she to suck my nipple on night t shirt becomes little wet.its risk
4) boobs sex is safe.penis covered by condom and other parts not covered like(scortum) if I rub to her chest and nipples.if there risk i will skip boob sex .
All this activities r safe from (Hiv,Std and sti).
No sex.

Plz explain briefly one by one.ur answer very needful to me.
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (7 hours later)
Brief Answer:
All the activities mentioned by you carry no risk for HIV/STD /STI.

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Anal and vaginal penetrative sex only are considered as high risk for HIV infection as per CDC, XXXXXXX USA. Unprotected oral sex carries a low risk for HIV infection. All the other activities carry negligible risk for HIV infection. Exchange of body fluids is necessary for the transmission of HIV infection.
When you are on your inner wear, there is no chance for HIV infection. So all the activities explained by you carry no risk for HIV infection /STD /STI. You can even have Handjob or protected oral sex. Still you are safe.
Dr S Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (2 hours later)
If I rubbed her boobs and nipples against my bare penis and scortum.if she has any sore on nipple area.Any risk of HIV , STD And STI
Boobs sex and for above activity i can use oil or lotion.its safe or wear condom.
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (27 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Risk is still negligible only

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back. Rubbing against the boobs and nipple has no absolute risk for HIV /STD. If she has sore over nipple, even then she is not necessarily being HIV positive individual. Even if we consider her HIV positive, then also the risk is negligible only. If she has STD sores, it may be infectious.
Applying oil is not going to change the situation.
Dr S Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (5 days later)
Sir
Im little bit confused .last discussion.if she has STD sore.it may be infectious. 
What infectious Std transmitted.
Sucking lacting breast 2-3 drop milk.it is not safe.

While body massage ,if she has any lesion on hand.she does massage by hand only upper part of body (front and laying back).and
Also nipple sore rubs against front (chest,face)
.on my neck there is skin wart.its safe .Any risk of STD and STI.what type std transmitted.
By all this act body massage safe.Any risk

15 days back.I had dental work (two last teeth removed).any risk while kissing and nipple sucking.
Body massage can be done by hand gloves.safe r ,get (reactions ,allergy )

For Hand job (without condom ).hand gloves can be used .can get (reaction ,allergy)

Dental dam (condom cut)can used for nipple sucking.safe

For above activities r safe.Sir
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Risk for HIV/STD is negligible

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Medicine is not mathematics to have constant answers.
All the activities mentioned by you carry negligible risk for HIV infection.
All STDs are caused by variety of germs, so they are infectious and can be transmitted from one individual to another through sexual act. But certain STDs are not common nowadays and transmission through oral sex is a remote possibility. I can not enumerate each and every activity. All carry negligible risk for HIV /STD.
Allergic reactions for condom and gloves can occur rarely. Warty lesions over neck have no additional risk.
Dr S Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (52 minutes later)
Sorry sir regarding repeated question.
Oral sex means mouth to- (vagina to penis.)
Finally body massage and hand job are safe. Activity without risk.
I will.avoid oral sex,anal sex and vaginal.sex
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (11 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Both felatio and cunnilingus are called as oral sex.

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Oral sex can be performed on women- cunnilingus -- using the mouth on female external genitals
When it is performed on men --Felatio... insertion of penis into other's mouth.
Both are called as oral sex only and carry low risk for HIV.
Body massage and hand job are absolutely safe as far as HIV/STD are concern.
Have good time and fun at Singapore.
Dr S.Murugan

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (32 hours later)
Thank u sir for clarification.
For blow job (with condom on penis + dental dam on girl mouth) safe.any risk.I can do this

Finally what is low risk and negligible risk

Thank sir for ur patienance and reply my repeatedly qeustion.
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Protected oral sex is absolutely safe

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Blow job with condom and dental dam (protected oral sex) is absolutely safe.
As per CDC, XXXXXXX USA, Anal and vaginal sex are considered as high risk activities for HIV transmission. The risk in these activities range from 11-138/10000 exposures for anal sex and 4-8/ 10000 exposures for vaginal exposures. Risk with oral sex is low, that means it is far lesser than the risk with vaginal sex. Other activities carry a negligible risk means they have a remote possibility. You can imagine the probabilities
REf: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimates/riskbehaviors.html
Dr S.Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (8 days later)
Hello sir
on 20/10/2016.I had engaged with escort girl in singapore
1)In bath tub, she was naked and i was in only inner wear on.while bathing her vagina touched to my legs (from calf to knee). I was little bit nervous.immediately stopped it.
I came out from bath tub.and then

2)I did boobs squeezing and boobs massage to her.she was laying on bed naked and i was on clothes on(t shirt+jeans+bed sheet).i did dry humping.our private parts rubbed to eachother penis (vagina+butt)
Once i touched to buttucks by bare hand.
I kissed to her lips and boobs and touched her vagina (in bewteen there was cloth barrier like bed sheet.while kissing & touching)
By looking her body she was clean.
From above activities any risk of STD & STI
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (35 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Your risk for HIV is almost nil.

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
All your activities carry almost nil risk for HIV infection. Touching external genitals of a woman with leg, hugging, Massaging the breast, kissing, touching the buttocks, all these activities have negligible risk for HIV infection. HIV cannot survive outside the body fluids for not more than few seconds.
Dr S Murugan
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D
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Follow up: Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (39 minutes later)
Any risk of STD & STI
If her urine spilt on my legs
doctor
Answered by Dr. Sankaranantham Murugan (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Urine spilt has no risk for HIV infection.

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Welcome back.
Urine is not infectious as far as HIV is concerned.
You will not get HIV.
Dr S Murugan
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D
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What Is The Risk Of HIV Infection After Non-penetrative Sexual Activity?

Brief Answer: HIV risk is almost nil with the activities enumerated Detailed Answer: Hi, Welcome to HCM. Thanks for posting your query. Kissing, sucking of non - lactating breast, boob pressing, body massage, dry humping, Handjob, protected blowjob are safe activities and carry almost nil risk for HIV infection. A good shower and genital wash will give added advantage for your protection. Nothing more is necessary. But don't lie prey yourself for more risky activities Dr S Murugan