Brief Answer:
His symptoms are due to increased amount of alcohol in blood

Detailed Answer:
Hi XXXX,
Thanks for writing in.

I have read through your query in detail.
Please find my observations below.

1. It is possible that your husband has taken a higher than usual amount of alcohol and is presently under the influence of alcohol.

2. When a person is under the influence of alcohol, he might have a state of abnormal mental awareness, difficulty in judgement and might also have difficulty in concentration and involving himself in sex.

3. In this case, he might experience pain during sex and passing urine.

4. Please give him adequate amounts of water or fresh juices to keep him hydrated and suggest him to pass urine frequently when he gets the urge.

5. Once the alcohol is out of his system then he will be able to have normal sex and pass urine without discomfort and pain.

Hope this answers your question. Please feel free to correct any oversight in my interpretation of your problems and discuss them in detail as per your requirements.

Hope your query is answered.
Do write back if you have any doubts.

Regards,
Dr.Vivek

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