Question: Hi, I am an 18 year old female and have been sexually active with my first and only partner for about 7 months now. He's been tested and came back clean but I have had weird symptoms, and I'm just now getting them within this past month. A lump/bump randomly came up about a month ago in my vagina. Not really in, but only the end of my right side of my labia minor. I've been researching and all I can get is STD's which is scaring me, but I'm not sure if that can be since he came back clean and I was never sexually active before him so it doesn't seem possible. So anyway, another thing I found was a
bartholin cyst. It may be that but I'm not sure. It isn't a difference color from my vagina, it's just a small, hard bump. No pain. I've tried the warm bath thing a couple of times and it hasn't went away. Is this harmful? I also just recently looked and saw very tiny bumps in a row on my labia minor. Again, I don't think it's possible for me to have an STD. Could this be hair follicles? Because I do shave.. even in that part to make sure I remove all hair.
One last thing. I have weird symptoms such as:
It's normal for me to be constipated to the point where I end up bleeding from the anus.. but lately it seems to have gotten worse.
Frequent urination.
I was discharging a pinkish/brown sticky-jelly like fluid for about 3 days, and I wiped so hard to see what it was that I must have triggered something because it started to burn when I urinate until I fixed it by drinking baking soda. This happened twice.
I've been way too emotional.. I cried over getting a D in a class.
I do not have an unusual vaginal odor, but at times I think it does get pretty strong no matter how well I wash.
I've been constantly sleepy and sleeping all the time it seems like, and that's very unusual for me. My mom is convinced it's because I'm depressed and I'm really not.
I'm constantly hungry.. always feel like I need to eat. I've gained 11 lbs within a month. It's like I can't stop eating; it takes like 3 minutes for me to get hungry again. And it's not like I can starve myself because I do have stomach ulcers and it's painful when I don't eat. I do take medicine for that though.
My skin has been breaking out in acne really bad too.
I have new
stretch marks.. I'm assuming that's because I eat so much. But it's annoying because I look nasty and pregnant not only because of that but my stomach is actually get round now. It's embarrassing and people have actually been asking if I am pregnant. I guess it's a possibility because my partner and I do not use protection except birth control and the pull-out method. And I know were supposed to but neither of us find condoms enjoyable.
I've been very nauseous too, except I've only actually vomitted once.
I am diagnosed with: Diabetes type 2, anemia (low iron),
depression, anxiety, asthma, stomach ulcers and
acid reflux.
I take medication for all of the above. Half of a pill of
metformin every other day, an iron pill once a week, a pill and a half of
wellbutrin a day, 5g of melatonin a night, birth control every night, 4 stomach ulcer pills a day, and an acid reflux pill a day.
Can you tell me what's wrong with me? I'd rather not go to the doctor because there is no way I can go to my mom with this information, as I know I will surely get kicked out if she finds out I am sexually active. Plus we have no money right now whatsoever and won't until the first of the year.. and by then I plan on moving out and going to XXXXXXX with my boyfriend and his dad.