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What Are The Signs Of Homosexuality?

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Posted on Sat, 6 Feb 2016
Question: sir iam 25 yrs old male,my problem is that when i see a new male personnel i feel attracts them,i dont know why its happens,but who are my friends with me,i never feel attracts them even they are handsome,what kind of problem iam having i dont know,if this is sexual attraction,what kind of feelings should i have?please tell me what kind of symptoms does have a homosexual person,so i can confirm who i am,i hate this type of attraction,but it happens me automatically,how i can avoid this problem?i think iam becoming an homosexual man.i am always thinking about it please help me sir,and one of the big problem is that i have sexual images to self check am i homosexual man or not?how i can avoid this images also,this images irritates me always plz tell me sir
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
You are not homosexual

Detailed Answer:
Hi
Thanks for the query

Homosexuality means you feel sexually aroused on seeing or imagining a person of same sex. It means you feel good and may have erection when you see a male . In your case, these are anxiety provoking and you want to avoid or get rid of these thoughts. so your doctor may be right in saying you have OCD . I can't label you as homosexual. I think you should start treatment for OCD for getting over these thoughts. What you are getting is not sexual attraction. I can't comment on what kind of attraction is this? I need to know the kind of emotions you feel, in addition to anxiety .

Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (15 minutes later)
when I see new male persons if I feel attractes them I want to murder them because they are looking handsome,if I feel they are very look like ugly I feel very happy,but I am not able to avoid this problem please tell me which Doctor can cure me Sir
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (29 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Pl consult a psychiatrist

Detailed Answer:
Hi
With this additional information, I am sure you have OCD You should consult a psychiatrist for treatment
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (31 minutes later)
because of that problem eye contact with males also became difficult to Me,but I want to maintain eye to eye contact with males,is it wrong or right?is there any chances to that anybody can mis understands me?
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (9 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Eye contact is a positive attribute

Detailed Answer:
Hi
Maintaining appropriate eye contact while talking to some body is indicative of your self confidence but is not indicative of your sexual interest . I have used the term appropriate because eye contact can convey a lot . It can express your emotions you may or may not want to express . so maintaining eye contact is good . Similarly not doing it with males may go unnoticed because you have such feelings for new males or may convey you have some grudge against him So if you want to be friendly with some one , eye contact is a must
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad
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Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (12 hours later)
I want to see in the people eye because I want to avoid this eye contact problem I mean practice purpose,it will create any problem?please tell me sir briefly man to man sexual attractions means ?
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Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Get treatment for OCD

Detailed Answer:
Hi , Welcome back to HCM.

It is very good skill to have eye contact while talking . You can do it by getting treatment for OCD .

Man to man sexual attraction means when a male gets sexual excitement with a male , not/or in-addition to females, Male to male is homosexuality and male to female is heterosexuality

Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Arnab Banerjee
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What Are The Signs Of Homosexuality?

Brief Answer: You are not homosexual Detailed Answer: Hi Thanks for the query Homosexuality means you feel sexually aroused on seeing or imagining a person of same sex. It means you feel good and may have erection when you see a male . In your case, these are anxiety provoking and you want to avoid or get rid of these thoughts. so your doctor may be right in saying you have OCD . I can't label you as homosexual. I think you should start treatment for OCD for getting over these thoughts. What you are getting is not sexual attraction. I can't comment on what kind of attraction is this? I need to know the kind of emotions you feel, in addition to anxiety . Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa