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First of all Genital Herpes is not a Life threatening disease. Thousands of couple are living happily in the presence of HSV infection and blessed with healthy children.
Since 5 years no recurrence with HSV infection is a good sign. Many individauals cease to have recurrences after prolonged gap. At the sametime Medicine is not mathematics to have a constant answer.
One can avoid sexual activities in the presence of either symptoms or during prodrome as far as possible, then it is possible to stay uninfected.
If one had repeated recurrences we used to put them on suppressive therapy that can prevent recurrence and prevent the spread of infection. So not worry about the transmission of infection. You can have sex with her or can get married to her without any hesitation or inhibition.