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Suggest Ways To Gain Weight In A Healthy Manner

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Posted on Sat, 10 Oct 2015
Question: Hi Dr...

1) how to gain weight in healthy way....?
am 52kgs from past 10 years sumtimes I gain 2 to 3 kgs n again I lose....
am 26 yrs old...
I masturbate once r twice in a week ...I feel masturbation causing this issue....

2) I fell sick frequently atleast once in 2 mnths...
doctor
Answered by Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (4 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Train hard. Build your self image. Stop worrying about masturbation.

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXX,

I am Dr. Neel Kudchadkar and I will solve your problem easily.

First, you mention that your weight has been the same for 10 years with some changes, yet returning to 52 kgs. This is a medical fact that some persons naturally have got a weight in this region and it is healthy for them. This is the basis of the BMI metabolic ratio, that is calculated by dividing your height by weight. Now, weigh yourself and measure your height with a tape standing erect.

The quotient of this division should be between =< 21.

So, I feel that 52 kilos is quite good and has no relationship with your age of 26.
In fact, 99% of people are trying their best to come down to such a weight (@BMI) and are spending time, money and energy to do so.

You will not be bothered about your weight, I strongly feel, if you develop a muscular physique by training in a gym with weights. So, let us turn that into a
well built 52 kilos.

Masturbation cannot make you mentally or physically sick. This is a scientific and medical fact. I will explain your problem in a nutshell. Masturbation makes you feel guilty, right?
It is this guilt feeling that is eating you from the within causing you to get stressed and developing psychosomatic problems, meaning you mention that you frequently fall ill.

I suggest that you go to a gym and train hard, 2 things will happen.

1. You will develop a good muscular physique.
2. You will feel good that you have a perfect 52 kilo muscled body, so the weight will not bother you.
3. Your body will make more testosterone.
4. Your sex drive will get exhausted with training and your desire to masturbate will lessen.
5. You will become self confident. Your self worth will increase. Your self image will
improve.
6. This self confidence will empower you to seek heterosexual relationships with females.
7. This is a fact. It is true. Imagine yourself in this position of personal power now. It feels good, doesn't it?

Feel free to write back to me and clarify doubts, if you do not understand something.

I am open to your questions.

Obliged,
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T
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Follow up: Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (25 minutes later)
thanks a lot Dr....I also sex wit my girlfriend n I do it vry hard sumtimes I feel got fever such a hard v do sex it is healthy...?
will masturbation reduce sex drive..?
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Answered by Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (33 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Either enjoy masturbation or stop it by taking this tablet.

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXX,

Hard sex with rough foreplay as you mention here is just one of the many different methods of having sexual intercourse. Apart from causing physical trauma, such as slight bleeding, hard sex as you mention it is not harmful in any way. This is my opinion.

You questioned me whether masturbation decereases sex drive.

The difference between a man and a woman is that a man can get only a certain number
of orgasms per day. A female can get multiple orgasms. The orgasm experienced by a man is followed by a climax and ejaculation. The orgasm experienced by a female is like a series of sneezes.

If you were to be totally satisfied that indeed after masturbation you felt sated,
then your motivation to have sex with a female will come down, right?

There is only a certain amount of sex drive in any person.

So, think of your sex drive as an exhaustable resource, either you can masturbate it away or have actual sex, isn't it?

The person who questions as regards whether masturbation gives him weakness, sickness and such things is secretly disturbed by it.

You have two choices.
1. Exhaust your sex drive with your girlfriend.
2. You might want to avoid masturbation if it disturbs you so much.

Masturbation is a good idea. If you find that it is disrupting your life, do this,

Take this tablet: Risperidone I would say take 1 tablet at night.

This will make masturbation very difficult and unpleasant. This tablet will decrease your sex urge. Also it will be difficult to get an erection and even if you do, you cannot ejaculate, nor can you orgasm. (Chemical castration)

So, I kindly request you to stop this self created problem of fear of masturbation and focus on other worthwhile goals in life.

I leave the choice to you.
Choose wisely.

Dr. Neel Kudchadkar.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Raju A.T
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Follow up: Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (5 hours later)
Dr i do hard sex to satisfy my girlfrnd and I too high at that time once done I feel like am sick until I all for sumtime....
this tablt will also effect my sex life rite...?I mean both masturbation and sex drive will decrease n I cannot enjoy wit my girlfriend rite. ?
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Answered by Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (16 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Take Fluoxetine capsules at night to get what you want.

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,

Do this.

1. You are definitely obssessed and anxious about your masturbation.
2. You yourself have said that you do not wish to stop it.
3. Neither do you wish to take anything to control it.
4. Though I have proved to you, that scientifically and statistically, there is no problem with it.
5. So, let us create a situation where you continue to enjoy sex and masturbation
together, possibly with an increased sex drive and satisfaction without tension, right?
6. You would want this situation, would you?
7. Forget about Risperidone. Take this agent Fluoxetine capsule at night. This will
solve all the problems and you will get exactly what you are looking for.

Thanks,
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
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Follow up: Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (1 hour later)
thank u Dr but what is this fluoxetine capsule....?
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Answered by Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (2 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Fluoxetine strengthens you.

Detailed Answer:
Hi!

To put it simply, Fluoxetine is a medicine to strengthen yourself, for your problem, given your situation, and your wishes and the circumstances of the administration of this drug.

Take my advice and take it.

Thanks,
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
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Follow up: Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (15 hours later)
Hi Dr....

I will post new question mentioning my weight prblm you plz write answer as u stated above bcase my parents alwayz compel me to gain weight so that I can convince then that am healthy ...i don't want to show this thread bcase v discussed abt masturbation so...
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Answered by Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (6 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Yes. I will do it. Just do this.

Detailed Answer:
Hi!

Very good. Please click on this link to ask me a direct question. http://www.bit.ly/askdrneel So, that your question will come to me, once this happens I will do as you say.

Be happy.
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Follow up: Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (26 minutes later)
Dr I posted query mentioning ur name on frst line please delete that frst line n answer my question....
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Answered by Dr. Neel Kudchadkar (12 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
It will be done.

Detailed Answer:
Hi!

Kindly close this thread as we can begin the next one. The answers that I will give that are relevant to your needs.

Thanks.
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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Suggest Ways To Gain Weight In A Healthy Manner

Brief Answer: Train hard. Build your self image. Stop worrying about masturbation. Detailed Answer: Hello XXXX, I am Dr. Neel Kudchadkar and I will solve your problem easily. First, you mention that your weight has been the same for 10 years with some changes, yet returning to 52 kgs. This is a medical fact that some persons naturally have got a weight in this region and it is healthy for them. This is the basis of the BMI metabolic ratio, that is calculated by dividing your height by weight. Now, weigh yourself and measure your height with a tape standing erect. The quotient of this division should be between =< 21. So, I feel that 52 kilos is quite good and has no relationship with your age of 26. In fact, 99% of people are trying their best to come down to such a weight (@BMI) and are spending time, money and energy to do so. You will not be bothered about your weight, I strongly feel, if you develop a muscular physique by training in a gym with weights. So, let us turn that into a well built 52 kilos. Masturbation cannot make you mentally or physically sick. This is a scientific and medical fact. I will explain your problem in a nutshell. Masturbation makes you feel guilty, right? It is this guilt feeling that is eating you from the within causing you to get stressed and developing psychosomatic problems, meaning you mention that you frequently fall ill. I suggest that you go to a gym and train hard, 2 things will happen. 1. You will develop a good muscular physique. 2. You will feel good that you have a perfect 52 kilo muscled body, so the weight will not bother you. 3. Your body will make more testosterone. 4. Your sex drive will get exhausted with training and your desire to masturbate will lessen. 5. You will become self confident. Your self worth will increase. Your self image will improve. 6. This self confidence will empower you to seek heterosexual relationships with females. 7. This is a fact. It is true. Imagine yourself in this position of personal power now. It feels good, doesn't it? Feel free to write back to me and clarify doubts, if you do not understand something. I am open to your questions. Obliged, Dr. Neel Kudchadkar