Suggest Ways To Deal With A Broken Relationship
Yes as you have insight so you can change even in this capacity.
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You have turned out of control and are going through the rough times. You have awareness about the problem and have insight that the problem is aggravating because of the out of control thing. In such case with acceptance of problem it is not very difficult to make change in his/her life and in behaviour.
Just introspect yourself and find out the most problematic things that are leading to big problems. Once you separate these things then try to change the problematic areas one by one. Avoid alcohol is possible because alcohol results in impulsive behaviour. If you can describe the problem you are facing, the events that result in out of control things in follow up then that can be used in sorting out the problem?
What kind of symptoms you have at time of "out of control"?
Have you ever talked about your problem?
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Behaviour therapy with anger management can help to control symptoms.
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Hello again and thanks for providing details
Sudden lashing out on her with feeling of guilt after that is occurring most likely due to impulsive behaviour. The impulsive behaviour can be controlled but will need a lot of patience. Anger management and behaviour therapy should help in controlling your impulsive behaviour.
Visit a psychologist for proper treatment with behaviour therapy and anger management. If symptoms persist then medicines can also help. Drugs like Sodium Valproate can help in controlling the symptoms. But the drugs will only be needed if you fail to get improvement with behaviour therapy and relaxation exercises.
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