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Suggest treatment for severe depression due to a broken relationship

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Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi

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Posted on Mon, 19 Oct 2015 in Mental Health
Question: Dr Seikhoo Bishnoi. I closed out the query because I didnt have anything else to say. I am so sad. I dont care what I look like I dont eat I am not going to take any more pills except remeron and zanax. XXXXXXX is gone im in a lot of physical pain and nothing means anything to me anymore. Why doesnt my friend understand that I am not interested in another relationship or anything at all anymore? She lost a daughter to suicide ten years ago but I am not XXXXXXX I simply have no interest in anything. I cant talk to anyone about Muchael and I get that he is probably never coming back. My back and legs are so bad and I have so much pain I cant cook or clean. I dont have enough money to live on since XXXXXXX is gone. As soon as XXXXXXX gets more people to help her I am going to stop helping her. I just dont want to live anymore. Nothing means anything anymore. All my children are gone and XXXXXXX is gone. I dont know why I have to live anymore.whats the use?
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 2 hours later
Brief Answer:
Please try to move past XXXXXXX

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Your friend is saying all these because she wants you to improve in health. Try to move past XXXXXXX He has caused a lot of damage to your mental and physical health. Please take care of your health. Time will improve everything.

Talk to XXXXXXX if he is not there. Don't feel bad about anything.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 7 hours later
I dont understand you. Why would I eveb if I could, ever want to move past XXXX? I have no interest ib movibg past XXXXXXX Im confused. U used to say have hope about him coming back. I cant forget him dont u see? I just feel sad about him. There is nothing left for me now.. I dont even wabt to see my son anymore. He doesn't want to talk about him either so we dont have abything to talk about. Nothing means anything anymore not without XXXXXXX
I justclay in bed hoping and waiting to die. im all alone now so nothing matters...dont u see? Nothing.. XXXXXXX no longer cares im in pain all the time its all over
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 1 hour later
Brief Answer:
Please concentrate on your health

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Yes I always wanted that you and XXXXXXX become one again. I also believed that XXXXXXX will improve, but he hasn't shown any improvement. He lacks insight and no one is there to take care of him. His dejection caused harm to your health. This is the reason I am requesting you to try to think beyond him and I know it's difficult for you but we have very few options now. Please try to understand, at least for some time concentrate on your health and personal life. Try to talk to XXXXXXX this will make you feel better.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 8 minutes later
I dont have anythibg to talk to XXXXXXX anymore. I dont care about my XXXXXXX I dobt ubderstand what u mean. XXXXXXX is dejected? What do u mean by that? I am not interested in anything or anyobe. Not anymore
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 3 minutes later
Brief Answer:
The damage XXXXXXX caused in your life

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

It was a typing mistake, as I am replying from XXXXXXX I meant to say the dejection, depression he caused in your life. His actions result in depression and sadness in your life. Please try to find new interests in your life.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 9 minutes later
I dont have any I terests in life. I dont want anything. I am just waiting to die. Thats all I want nothing else. I am stranded without money car XXXXXXX or XXXXXXX abd in terrible physical pain from a leg that won't heal. Cant go anywhere or do anythinbg and I almost never see XXXXXXX anymore. There is nothi g left anymore.

I just want to be lefy alone and die...no one is here...I dont want to move in or go to Israel. I told my son to scatter my ashes in Israel. If there was even a glimmer of hope that XXXXXXX loves me or would come back I might re consider but now there is nothing..
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 7 hours later
Brief Answer:
Wait for some time

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please let some time pass. Keep some hopes, though XXXXXXX is ill but still hope for a miracle. Don't think of dying, you are a brave woman and should not give up. Everything will improve with time.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 23 minutes later
XXXXXXX wont talk to me for a month but I will be dead by then. He thinkd I hate him because I want to kill myself. Now more than ever I want to die. I guess I have pushed everyone away. Yhat makes it easier to kill myself..I am getting sleepy now so I have to go. No one to stop me thus time
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 1 minute later
Brief Answer:
Please try to suppress bad thoughts

Detailed Answer:
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XXXXXXX will surely come back, no doubt in that. Please try to suppress the bad thoughts. Try to find light in darkness. Please try to maintain your health. Please don't think of killing yourself.

Thanks
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 2 hours later
I just found out that thevnew judge decided I did harass XXXXXXX and is upholding the injunction against me. Doesvthat mean XXXXXXX no longer lovesvme? Thevjudgevmade mention of me contacting him fro August to February. I am heartbroken. XXXXXXX vreally doesnt care for me anymore. How fouldvthat be ifvhe once loved me so much? Please help me to understand. He will only file another injunction against me again if I try to contact him after its over....I guess he really doesnt want contact anymore

So what do you think XXXXXXX feels for me now? If I try to contact him will he file another injunction? I am the criminal now because legally I am now the harasser stalker..I feel so sad and empty now
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 2 hours later
Brief Answer:
Please try to regain your health

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

If the injunction is staying then try not to contact him. Legal problems always cause damage. In my opinion once injunction ends you can visit XXXXXXX and can talk to him. Let's see what happens. Don't remain very optimistic in this, remain relaxed. He has cause a lot of damage to your health and try to regain your health. Please try to understand.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 54 minutes later
Im not contacting him. My question is, if he still cares abouy me why is he not dismissing the injunction? Why did the second judge uphold thr injunction and what made him stop lovinh me?
Tonight I called a crisis line and went to bed right after. Two cops pounded on my door and grilled me about taking mevto the hodpital for suicide. I ead sleeping! So that is added stress ancd fear. Now I have to move again.
But really why did XXXXXXX stop loving me and why is he keeping the injunction. If he lived me he would want to be with me righr? So its obvious he no longervloves

Why doesnt XXXXXXX live me any more? Its obvious he no longer loves me and doesnt even remember the love we had. Many people in my situation try contacting the person after thevinjunction is dropped only to be hit with more injunctions ovef abd over again. He doesnt even miss me. He sounded so happy the day he anseered the phone. He isvfine and Im suicidal. I had called crisis earlier and when I was peacefully sleeping cops were banging on my door trying to find a reason to haul me off tobthe hospital. I am so traumatized and aad and confused because XXXX no longer loves me..
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 2 hours later
Brief Answer:
Please don't do anything wrong

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

He is ill and has no insight so this is the reason he doesn't want injunction to be dropped. He has delusions and in such situation his such behaviour is expected. All these things are resulting in his behaviour that he doesn't care about you. Please avoid doing anything that might increase legal troubles. Please talk to someone but don't do anything wrong.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 10 hours later
Im taking lotvof pills and not eating. I cant cope with the tact XXXXXXX doesnt love me. Mayne he stopped loving me and isnt a schizo after all. I just dont want cops at my door. Do u think he no longer loves me? I cant contact him when the injunctionb is over because he doesnt want me anymore. So I dont want tovlive
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi 6 hours later
Brief Answer:
Avoid taking more pills

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please try to understand, he lacks insight and is not in his sane mind. This means he can't love you, he can't even decide what's right and what's wrong. Try to accept this, don't anticipate anything. Try to remain relaxed and avoid taking more pills.

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