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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

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Posted on Wed, 19 Oct 2016
Question: penis stand properly but when i want to do sex with girls it does not stand and some water comes in my penis
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (44 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
It is pre ejaculatory fluid for lubrication

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.

Watery discharge when you go to girl is called pre ejaculatory fluid. It is secretion from couper's gland for lubrication. It prevents friction with vagina during sex.

Your erection is there means there is no physical problem. Penis does not erect when you go for sex is likely due to performance anxiety.

To help you further I need more details.

- Since when are you having sex?

- When did you do your last successful intercourse?

- Do you pay more attention while trying for sex?

- How much time do you spend in foreplay?

- How is relation with your girlfriend?

- Do you have any stress in life?

- Do you have habit of smoking, alcohol or tobacco?

- Do you masturbate? If yes provide details and satisfaction with it?

I will be happy to help further.

Regards,
Dr Chintan Solanki.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Veerisetty Shyamkumar
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Follow up: Dr. Chintan Solanki (6 hours later)
I am having sex only night hour
My last intercourse before 2to 3 days
I pay more attention
I spend in foreplay around 30 an hour
Relation with my girlfriend is good
No I don't have any stress
I have no habit
Yes masuburate when playing with my pennies and watching women without dress I am masuburated
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (11 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Performance anxiety is likely there

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for information. Sorry for delayed response.

Performance anxiety is likely playing role in your case as you are giving attention to penis.
Sometime due to fatigue, lack of mood, situational problem or environmental changes man can fail in sex. It is normal phenomenon. However when this failure makes person apprehensive about erection, sex life is affected. This is called performance anxiety. After such failure when person actively thinks about erection or success of intercourse during sex/masturbation his mind is likely diverted to such thoughts. For constant erection continuous exciting/romantic/erotic feelings should be there in mind. If mind diverted to concern about erection, erection would not be possible.

While doing sex keep yourself relax.

Whenever you go for sex, spare enough time in foreplay. You should not think actively about erection, your mind must be occupied with sexual/romantic feelings. During foreplay your partner should try to arouse you and note that your penis gets erection or not. When she feels that penis is sufficiently erect she herself should try to put erect penis in vagina gradually and you should continue your foreplay feelings without being conscious about erection. You must try to enjoy and only enjoy.

If your partner is not aware about this situation you can do on your own. You just should try to do sex without being conscious about erection. Enjoy without thinking of your ability of maintaining erection and you will succeed or not.

I recommend following supplements.

You can use medicine cum vitamin supplement containing pyridoxal-5-phosphate, mecobalamin and l-methylfolate (trade name tetrafol plus) is very helpful in my patients. It has shown improvement in 50-60 patients of mine with ED. You may get this medicine over the counter as it is vitamin product.

I would like to also mention ayurvedic medicine option. Tentex forte is the medicine which is used for sex related problem. No side effects have been reported.

If I were your treating doctor I suggest one tablet of tetrafol plus after meal twice daily for two months and one tablet tentex forte daily at night with a cup of milk for 4 weeks.

Feel free to discuss further.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Chintan Solanki (10 hours later)
may I take medicine or not
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (15 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Yes you can take

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

You can take tetrafol plus and/or tentex forte as I mentioned in the last answer.

All the best.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

Brief Answer: It is pre ejaculatory fluid for lubrication Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern. Watery discharge when you go to girl is called pre ejaculatory fluid. It is secretion from couper's gland for lubrication. It prevents friction with vagina during sex. Your erection is there means there is no physical problem. Penis does not erect when you go for sex is likely due to performance anxiety. To help you further I need more details. - Since when are you having sex? - When did you do your last successful intercourse? - Do you pay more attention while trying for sex? - How much time do you spend in foreplay? - How is relation with your girlfriend? - Do you have any stress in life? - Do you have habit of smoking, alcohol or tobacco? - Do you masturbate? If yes provide details and satisfaction with it? I will be happy to help further. Regards, Dr Chintan Solanki.