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Question: Hi,
I am married for 4 years and I experience pain when my husband tries to penetrate. His erected penis circumference is about 6 inches. The tip is around 4 and gradually increases in width and goes up to 6 inches. Every time he is penetrating, i feel so much pain, sometimes i push him away and this really puts hard on our relationship. I feel his, very large in circumference. Is this wide length is normal? Otherwise, he is fertile, i have a kid of 3 years. please suggest me something to have painless sex
I am married for 4 years and I experience pain when my husband tries to penetrate. His erected penis circumference is about 6 inches. The tip is around 4 and gradually increases in width and goes up to 6 inches. Every time he is penetrating, i feel so much pain, sometimes i push him away and this really puts hard on our relationship. I feel his, very large in circumference. Is this wide length is normal? Otherwise, he is fertile, i have a kid of 3 years. please suggest me something to have painless sex
Brief Answer:
The length is normal.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for trusting us with your health concern.
Some females do have drier vagina. Adequate foreplay is needed before having sex to decrease the dryness. A physical examination to rule out infection is needed.
A lubricating jelly or oil may be used so that forceful penetration without enough lubrication doesn't hurt the vagina.
Do some deep breathing exercises as Yoga/meditation which will help you in relaxation.
The size of penis is normal and you need not worry that it will hurt you.
Please feel free to discuss further. I will be glad to answer the follow up queries that you have.
Wishing you good health.
Regards.
Dr. Rakhi Tayal.
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The length is normal.
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for trusting us with your health concern.
Some females do have drier vagina. Adequate foreplay is needed before having sex to decrease the dryness. A physical examination to rule out infection is needed.
A lubricating jelly or oil may be used so that forceful penetration without enough lubrication doesn't hurt the vagina.
Do some deep breathing exercises as Yoga/meditation which will help you in relaxation.
The size of penis is normal and you need not worry that it will hurt you.
Please feel free to discuss further. I will be glad to answer the follow up queries that you have.
Wishing you good health.
Regards.
Dr. Rakhi Tayal.
For future query, you can directly approach me through my profile URL http://bit.ly/Dr-Rakhi-Tayal
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
We tried using lubes as well. While penetration, he loses his erection most of the times and sometimes his foreskin gets peels up. Still we have problem in complete penetration. I have already consulted gyn doctor. She did 2 finger test and she confirmed that i have no problem in my organ. Also, i had 8th month miscarriage and i underwent VBAC.
Brief Answer:
Peeling can be due to infection.
Detailed Answer:
Hello.
Thanks for writing again.
The loss of erection can cause a difficulty in penetration. The peeling of skin can be related to a local infection in the area. It is best to consult a urologist and get him examined so that proper treatment can be initiated.
Hope my answer is helpful.
Do accept my answer in case there are no further queries.
Regards.
Peeling can be due to infection.
Detailed Answer:
Hello.
Thanks for writing again.
The loss of erection can cause a difficulty in penetration. The peeling of skin can be related to a local infection in the area. It is best to consult a urologist and get him examined so that proper treatment can be initiated.
Hope my answer is helpful.
Do accept my answer in case there are no further queries.
Regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
losing the erection is normal during penetration? As he hastily does penetration due to this problem, i get pain. He never does slow on me. But he has good count and i am not sure why loses his erection often. he could not able to withstand the erection continuously for 2 mins.
Brief Answer:
It is not normal.
Detailed Answer:
Losing the erection during penetration is not normal. Anxiety is found as the cause most often. De-stressing measures like exercise, particularly aerobic exercise is an effective treatment for erectile dysfunction.
Apart from this, good couple intimacy, quitting smoking (if any) is the necessary to reduce the problem.
A few medical drugs such as phosphodiesterase inhibitors / alprostadil have been used for the treatment. You may get them prescribed by a doctor if none of the above measures are successful in treating the problem. Both oral medications as well as injections are available to help in maintaining the erection. Your physician will help you in choosing the best agent for your husband after examining him to rule out the contraindicating factors.
Regards.
It is not normal.
Detailed Answer:
Losing the erection during penetration is not normal. Anxiety is found as the cause most often. De-stressing measures like exercise, particularly aerobic exercise is an effective treatment for erectile dysfunction.
Apart from this, good couple intimacy, quitting smoking (if any) is the necessary to reduce the problem.
A few medical drugs such as phosphodiesterase inhibitors / alprostadil have been used for the treatment. You may get them prescribed by a doctor if none of the above measures are successful in treating the problem. Both oral medications as well as injections are available to help in maintaining the erection. Your physician will help you in choosing the best agent for your husband after examining him to rule out the contraindicating factors.
Regards.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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