Nothing to be concerned,no anal sex...
Thank you for following up.
The reason why your stool gets stuck in your rectum
is due to:
ointment you use
- fatty stool (diet high in oily foods, etc.)
It is nothing to be concerned although I admit, it is quite fastidious.
With regards to having anal sex, I advise to talk with your partner and try to convince that anal sex is not recommended and neither a healthy sexual intercourse. Especially, at this moment when you are having stool stuck in your rectum.
Furthermore, anal sex will aggravate your actual anal problems, and would be a manner of spreading infectious disease. Please bare in mind that when having anal sex, your rectum and anal mucosa will be injured (due to friction), thus, leading to bleeding.
Next, if stool is still there, it will cause the lacerated mucosa (after having anal sex) to get easily infected. The infection might be spread easily through bloodstream if injured.
You can consult further with a proctologist
to evaluate your anal/rectal condition.
All the best!