Brief Answer:
Your wife needs treatment

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for the query.

There are two issues to be addressed- Tight vagina and Erection problem

Tight vagina is a very common problem where there is involuntary spasm of vaginal opening when the female anticipated penile entry. It becomes so tight that penetration is impossible. It is due to unconscious fears of pain, misconceptions about sex and anxiety. Some times local problems like infections, inadequate lubrication or vaginal abnormality also contribute. Treatment is psychotherapy which can be given on line so that the fear can be removed.
In the interim, try good foreplay with an effort to improve lubrication. You can also try lubricants like KY jelly and see if it helps penetration.
Second is erection issue. It can be due to anxiety of inability to penetrate. Therefore I will first suggest treating your wife. If penetration is possible, I feel you may not need any treatment.

DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA

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