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Question: My age is 27. From XXXXXXX XXXXXXX Not married. I have been addicted for masturbation from my college days. In last few months i suffered from depression for a break up with my gf. Then i just lost interest in sex. After few months i forced myself to do masterbate. I feel i get ejection before my penis get stiffness. And i dont feel that the penis stand. It seems too soft. What do i have to do now? Without stiffness how can i have sex and become a father?
I does not dring for more than a year. I did not smoke for more than 5 years. But two weeks before i did smoke for a week. That is also very less. Daily one cigarette with tea. And i drund two times. First time 2 and half beer last sunday and 1 beer yesterday vomitted. I still masturbate 3 times a week atleast.
Do i need to stop masturbating for few more days? Just stopping few days will cure this probs? Can i get the stronger penis by doing excersize.? By eating healthy foood? If so what are the food i should take? Please help me. I want to be a father. My dad is too eager in finding a girl for marriage now.
I does not dring for more than a year. I did not smoke for more than 5 years. But two weeks before i did smoke for a week. That is also very less. Daily one cigarette with tea. And i drund two times. First time 2 and half beer last sunday and 1 beer yesterday vomitted. I still masturbate 3 times a week atleast.
Do i need to stop masturbating for few more days? Just stopping few days will cure this probs? Can i get the stronger penis by doing excersize.? By eating healthy foood? If so what are the food i should take? Please help me. I want to be a father. My dad is too eager in finding a girl for marriage now.
Brief Answer:
You are going to recover fully.
Detailed Answer:
Hi Young Man from XXXXXXX
Let us get some things very clear and straight:
Masturbation 3 times in a week is absolutely normal and natural process at your age of 27. It has nothing to do with the present problem you are having. You may regain masturbation once the present problem is overcome.
There is no proven exercise or food that can make penis stronger.
The obvious reason for your loss of interest in sex, inability to have a tight penis and holding ejaculation for a longer time; fear of inability of having sex and fathering the child is ''depression '' due to your break-up with your girlfriend.
Time is the solution for many such problems, you have to come out of your depression by overcoming it by intended decision to have a new fresh lease of life. Or you can get an assistance of a Psychiatrist if the problem is not improved within a few weeks.
This is just a small problem if you really look at it. As your Father is already finding a girl for a marriage, you have to prepare for a new life. Once you decide I am sure you will come out of this small problem very fast and swiftly and will have a normal sexual functions.
First of all you have to become very social, mix up with people, friends and family, get involved into a constructive activity, hobby or so in such a way that you are busy all the time. This will not give you time to get engaged into masturbation. GO for outings / vacation / tours. Try not to be alone at all. This will automatically suppress your feelings and alter them to more positive approach and help concentration.
I hope this answer helps you to come out of your problem completely. Please fell free to ask for more if you need to and you may please rate this answer if you liked.
Wishing you an early and complete recovery .
You are going to recover fully.
Detailed Answer:
Hi Young Man from XXXXXXX
Let us get some things very clear and straight:
Masturbation 3 times in a week is absolutely normal and natural process at your age of 27. It has nothing to do with the present problem you are having. You may regain masturbation once the present problem is overcome.
There is no proven exercise or food that can make penis stronger.
The obvious reason for your loss of interest in sex, inability to have a tight penis and holding ejaculation for a longer time; fear of inability of having sex and fathering the child is ''depression '' due to your break-up with your girlfriend.
Time is the solution for many such problems, you have to come out of your depression by overcoming it by intended decision to have a new fresh lease of life. Or you can get an assistance of a Psychiatrist if the problem is not improved within a few weeks.
This is just a small problem if you really look at it. As your Father is already finding a girl for a marriage, you have to prepare for a new life. Once you decide I am sure you will come out of this small problem very fast and swiftly and will have a normal sexual functions.
First of all you have to become very social, mix up with people, friends and family, get involved into a constructive activity, hobby or so in such a way that you are busy all the time. This will not give you time to get engaged into masturbation. GO for outings / vacation / tours. Try not to be alone at all. This will automatically suppress your feelings and alter them to more positive approach and help concentration.
I hope this answer helps you to come out of your problem completely. Please fell free to ask for more if you need to and you may please rate this answer if you liked.
Wishing you an early and complete recovery .
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