Suggest Treatment For Difficulty In Penetration During Intercourse
Whenever i tried inserting my penis into vagina, then it bends at the tip of vagina, but i am able to insert two finders into vagina easily now. Also i am able to do masturbation easily for last 17 yrs. I also watch porn movies a lot.
Every doctor is saying that all my semen and her reports are normal, so there is no need to worry. Initially some doctors told us to do circumcision as my foreskin was not restracting back. so i did it, but still no benefit yet. Issue is that this is the area where no one can give demo like teaching someone how to drive a car. Also very difficult to rule out whether it is erectiler dysfunction, improper technique or anything else.
Other issue with me is I am more interested in Masturbation with seeing porn movies than that of sexual intercourse. we are not getting what is the reason - vaginismus, erectile dysfuntion, improper technique. In that, we are wasting ur time.. We are really tired now.. Please help us to get out of it.Should we try vaginal dilator or viagra anything else. we are not getting anything
I want not only answer from you but final solution .I do not want to do IUI though.I am based out of XXXXXXX
Regards,
XXXX
Consider coming to XXXXXXX
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for the query.
If doctors were able to insert 2 fingers or a medium sized dilator in vagina, it is a good news . You have fairly good erection ( it should be more than 1000-1200 gm ) but it bends when you try to enter. This could be situational vaginismus - i.e. there is no spasm in introitus on attempts to enter in vagina anything but penis. So these are the 2 possibilities.
Such problems are due to unconscious fears generally. It needs Psychotherapy. I am not sure dilators will be helpful.
We have a hospital devoted to sexual health only. Such cases need sex education , some times and CBT after a thorough sexual health assessment. If someone tests your semen in such a situation , it means he is not trained in management of non consummation of marriage.
I suggest if it is feasible for you to come to XXXXXXX and let me assess both of you, Results are good if both are committed to marriage , parents should not interfere but provide full privacy and both are cool and a bit patient.
Regards
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa
Thanks for your reply.
What is CBT mentioned in ur answer?
I am in XXXXXXX so can u arrange it in XXXXXXX please.. Please tell us the nature of treatment in details and how many days will we be required to undergo ? What is the possibility of results through this process?
No of doctors have assessed us till now, but no solution till date. My marriage is in absolute problems. Please help me .
What is fairly good erection 1000-1200 gm mentioned in ur answer means, how can i evaluate approximately at home. I just want to know it is sufficient or not.. i am not interested in numbers.
Some doctors suggested me to take ayurvedic medication of Rs 80000 ,but i think it will not help me..I did not go the doctor again.
What is ur conclusion prima facie ? Whether it is improper technique or erectile dysfunction or vaginisusmus or anything other?
Request your help. We are really confused.
Regards,
XXXX
Results are good
Detailed Answer:
Hi
I can treat you on line for sure but there could be some limitations. I would need to take a series of consultations on skype for detailed assessment and drawin a plan of treatment. As I told you, the results are very good if both the partners are committed to solve it. 1000-1200 gm is the measurement by rigidometer but I can find other ways as well. It may take 6-8 weeks to be successful. We may need a weekly consultation . The treatment will consist of medicines, psychotherapy , cognitive behavior therapy, and sex education ,where needed. You can log on to my web site www.vivanhospital.com and opt for skype consultation . I shall guide you definitely so don't worry
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
1) Can I bring Rigidometer at home and check my erection
2) Please tell me nature of treatment in details now.
3) What is sex education u mentiioned in ur e-mail?
4) what is the success rate of this treatment now.
5) What are charges for skype consultation?
6) how i will get medication.Shall i come there or u will post it?
7) Seeing my case, what do u think is the issue with me.
8) What is the possibility of solving this issue. I am facing lot os problems on family front. Please help me.
Please find answer to your questions
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Rigidometer is an imported medical instrument . It is costly and you don't need you for home. Treatment will be preceded by appropriate tests and assessment to decide line of management. Sex education is imparting knowledge about the structure and functioning of genital organs and ways to perform sex. . Success rate is very high. I have yet to see a treatment failure where both are committed to maintain relations.Only failure is when you decide to separate. Skype costs 1000/- per consultation . I can tell you the name of medicines but if you find it hard to buy, I can definitely send. You probably have some psychological issues, erectile problems and your wife may be having vaginismus. There is a very very high possibility of solving this issue.
I shall try to help you for sure
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
Request your answer on following query.
I want to ask u abt if there is any possibility of Imperforate Hymen here. Because of which i am not able to enter ?
One thing i forgot to tell u that I am able to masturbate very easily for last 15 yrs, but not able to enter her vagina. what is the main cause of this? also tell me how diff are they ( masturbation and physical sexual intercourse)
Shall i try viagra 25 mg before inserting?
I will tell u what i do before this activity: first lubrication of penis with KY jelly and then insertion of two fingers in vagina(which is successful) and then panis insertion which is not possible here. so just before penis insertion, i am able to insert fingers but not penis.why?
Also I really want to do masturbation more than real sex.what is the reason.
Also send me the link for Skype call.Can i call u on this sunday. give me ur XXXXXXX number.
I am really more more interested in watching porn movides and doing masturbation than having real sex with partner. why this is happening. I am getting more fantasy in mastrubation than real sex. how real sex is diff from mastrubation . I am not feeling that much if she gets nude apart from erection. Real inclination towards mastrubation with fantsay. Why this is happening with me ?
Regards,
there can be many reasons for the problem
Detailed Answer:
Hi
You can't insert two fingers with imperforate hymen . Vaginal sex and masturbation are same but differ a lot in the head. If the hardness is ok, there may be penis specific Vaginismus.You may not be able to insert penis because of this. You prefer masturbation to vaginal sex - I can't say why? There can be many reasons.
I think you need couple sex therapy . You can get it by logging on www.vivanhospital.com. I shall make detailed assessment about both of you . Then make a treatnment plan . Skype consultation is paid one.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA