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Suggest remedy for difficulty in penetration during intercourse

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Posted on Tue, 10 May 2016
Question: Hi doctor, Last week I got married.I am facing difficult in inserting my penis in to her female part. initial it looks wet but after some time it become dry and difficult to insert and because of this i am losing my erection. she felt pain while having sex.Both are worrying about this and we are thinking about any problem we have. can you please suggest any best way to start our healthy sex life.
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Answered by Dr. Soumya (46 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Lubrication to be increased by increasing foreplay

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for your query.

I have read you query and I understand your concerns about pain while inserting.

Following is my reply:

1) This is common problem encountered by many couple in the beginning of married life. Dont worry about it.

2) The difficulty is mainly because of fear and reduced lubrication.

3) I advice both of you not to worry or be afraid as this is common problem initially with many couple and you are not alone.

4) Start with increased duration of foreplay which will help in lubricating the vagina well with mucous watery secretion.

5) You can use a lubrication jelly called as "KY Jelly"available in medical stores which will help in lubrication and reduce pain as well during insertion.

I hope I answered you query and addressed your concerns.

Let me know if you wish to ask any further questions. I will be glad to help you.

Regards,
Dr. Soumya



Brief Answer:
Mastrubation is healthy

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Dont worry abour Mastrubation. It is healthy and has no impact .

regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Soumya (23 hours later)
Thank you doctor. I will follow your advice.

I have one more question

I have habit of doing masturbation. is that will have any impact?


Thank you doctor. Can you please suggest any best lubricant brand. I will buy and try it.
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Answered by Dr. Soumya (25 hours later)
Brief Answer:
KY Jelly

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

KY Jelly is good lubricant.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Brief Answer: Lubrication to be increased by increasing foreplay Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for your query. I have read you query and I understand your concerns about pain while inserting. Following is my reply: 1) This is common problem encountered by many couple in the beginning of married life. Dont worry about it. 2) The difficulty is mainly because of fear and reduced lubrication. 3) I advice both of you not to worry or be afraid as this is common problem initially with many couple and you are not alone. 4) Start with increased duration of foreplay which will help in lubricating the vagina well with mucous watery secretion. 5) You can use a lubrication jelly called as "KY Jelly"available in medical stores which will help in lubrication and reduce pain as well during insertion. I hope I answered you query and addressed your concerns. Let me know if you wish to ask any further questions. I will be glad to help you. Regards, Dr. Soumya Brief Answer: Mastrubation is healthy Detailed Answer: Hi, Dont worry abour Mastrubation. It is healthy and has no impact . regards