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How to stimulate orgasm in women?

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Posted on Tue, 14 Jul 2015
Question: Hi Dr
I need a help from u. I am married. When i have sex with my wife she is not getting satisfied. I got married 14 yrs back. Having 2 kids. She says she has not released out so for. I hold for more than 10 to 15 mins. After rhat only spearm comes. When she wants to be on top of me she gets tired and says she feels gudiness. She fixed coppert t some 10 yrs back. What solution for her release.
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Answered by Dr. Saatiish Jhuntrraa (26 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Try some of the suggestions

Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for the query
Do you mean to say she has never experienced orgasm in 14 years of married life? if yes, it is likely to be true Normal peno vaginal sex never stimulates clitoris Women may not be sufficiently aroused to feel orgasm You need to adopt ways to arouse her like taking bath together, body message, oral sex, exploring clitoral stimulation , trying sex at a place other than bed room, etc. You may enquire what turns her on and try. Female superior may not be best for her Try doggie style , it gives more stimulation
Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

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Follow up: Dr. Saatiish Jhuntrraa (1 hour later)
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Thanks for ur reply. She gets mood all. Only prob is she does not ejects her orgasm. So help me ti eject it .
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Answered by Dr. Saatiish Jhuntrraa (12 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Orgasm is no ejection but a feeling

Detailed Answer:
hello
The ways I suggested are meant to help her reach orgasm. I understand she has good desire but needs appropriate arousal by different means to reach the point of release . there is no medicine for this, only exploring different means of excitement will help her reach orgasm.
Orgasm is not ejected. it is felt in the brain as pleasurable feelings associated with lubrication in vagina and a few pelvic contractions. It is not like the discharge in men as there is no clear ejection of a fluid , as is probably described in some porn literature. You can use your finger, oral or a toy to stimulate her
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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Brief Answer: Try some of the suggestions Detailed Answer: Hello Thanks for the query Do you mean to say she has never experienced orgasm in 14 years of married life? if yes, it is likely to be true Normal peno vaginal sex never stimulates clitoris Women may not be sufficiently aroused to feel orgasm You need to adopt ways to arouse her like taking bath together, body message, oral sex, exploring clitoral stimulation , trying sex at a place other than bed room, etc. You may enquire what turns her on and try. Female superior may not be best for her Try doggie style , it gives more stimulation Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa