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How To Masturbate And Reach Orgasm?
Question: Yes, I am 54 year old female and never been interested in sexual pleasures before in my entire life until a few months ago, possibly a year. I really want to know if you could provide me with help on learning how to masturbate and have orgasms, really appreciate your advice. I keep rubbing myself but nothing comes of it. Again, thanks for your help. Any drugs that might help, sexual pleasure items,
Hi, welcome and thanks for writing in.
- you need to truly relax and get in the mood before you start masturbating, then make sure that you won't be disturbed by anyone.
For most people, this means masturbating in their bedroom or doing it when their roommates/parents/partner is not in the house. You might also find turning your phone to silent is a good idea too.
Your Clit - Most find that having a clitoral orgasm is far easier than having a vaginal orgasm when learning how to masturbate, so first we are going to focus on the clit. If you don't already know about your clit, it's the small nub of firm skin the gets slightly bigger when you're aroused. It's located just above your vagina and is concealed under small folds of skin. It's very sensitive, especially right after you climax.
To stimulate it, try gently rubbing it with your fingers. You may find that it's so sensitive, that it's actually more pleasurable to provide it with indirect stimulation, rubbing around it, instead of touching it directly.
It's best if you start off massaging it slowly and gently and gradually build up how intensely you touch it as you are reaching climax. Then as you climax, ease right off as it will be incredibly sensitive to touch.
You can also try stimulator available in shops.
Hope I have answered your query. If you have further concern, please let me know.
Regards.
- you need to truly relax and get in the mood before you start masturbating, then make sure that you won't be disturbed by anyone.
For most people, this means masturbating in their bedroom or doing it when their roommates/parents/partner is not in the house. You might also find turning your phone to silent is a good idea too.
Your Clit - Most find that having a clitoral orgasm is far easier than having a vaginal orgasm when learning how to masturbate, so first we are going to focus on the clit. If you don't already know about your clit, it's the small nub of firm skin the gets slightly bigger when you're aroused. It's located just above your vagina and is concealed under small folds of skin. It's very sensitive, especially right after you climax.
To stimulate it, try gently rubbing it with your fingers. You may find that it's so sensitive, that it's actually more pleasurable to provide it with indirect stimulation, rubbing around it, instead of touching it directly.
It's best if you start off massaging it slowly and gently and gradually build up how intensely you touch it as you are reaching climax. Then as you climax, ease right off as it will be incredibly sensitive to touch.
You can also try stimulator available in shops.
Hope I have answered your query. If you have further concern, please let me know.
Regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Hello Doctor Sanap:
Would like to say thanks very much for taking your time to read and answer my post. Your answer was very helpful and very detailed in helping me understand my personal area better. And learn the pleasures of personal masturbation.
One last question please sir, is there any one particular type of stimulator that would be good to purchase?
Thanks once again Doctor Sanap for all your help really appreciate it sir.
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Would like to say thanks very much for taking your time to read and answer my post. Your answer was very helpful and very detailed in helping me understand my personal area better. And learn the pleasures of personal masturbation.
One last question please sir, is there any one particular type of stimulator that would be good to purchase?
Thanks once again Doctor Sanap for all your help really appreciate it sir.
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Hi, welcome back.
It is difficult to advice particular stimulator. You can have look in shops where such toys are available. Also you can purchase online.
Regards.
It is difficult to advice particular stimulator. You can have look in shops where such toys are available. Also you can purchase online.
Regards.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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