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How to have a successful sexual intercourse?

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Posted on Fri, 17 Oct 2014
Question: How to have sex for a first time ? how to get her i mood ?
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Answered by Dr. Ashok Kumar (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Take this 10 step process

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for using healthcaremagic.

I read your query and understand that you have very genuine query which has no straight forward answers. We all know that male species are commonly genitally focused, in contrast to women for them the sex is full mind and body experience. In other q words for men, sex is an emergency, and no matter how occupied they are, can be ready in two minutes. In contrast to men, women take time to initiate but once they got aroused they fire equally with men.

To get your partner in mood you can follow this 10 step process.
1. Prepare her for mind blowing sexual encounter by telling what you will do to her tonight either through a mail or keeping a hand written piece of paper at a place where she is likely to notice. You can ask her to prepare her by wearing favorite lingerie of her.

2. You can ask her to bring her bad girl attitude by whispering in her ear or can ask her to become stripper for you.

3. While being in bed with your partner do not allow her to get distracted from erotica of the moment. To keep her attention you can bring her in front of the life size mirror in bed room and tell her to see what you are going to do with her. It is always better to become bad guy in bed room by verbally describing every act of foreplay before you do it actually. You can initate the right moment by kissing her shoulders and neck as you rub your palms against her clothed body.

The removing of clothes should be in graded manner one by one and there is better to stop before you remove her panties. Direct hands of your partner for your own arousal. It is possible that within minutes she will be begging for love making with you.

4. Ask her to describe her fantasies to you through mail or post card to you. Encourage her to tell them in detail. The intimacy that arises following such revelation will be sexually arousing for her.

5. Try reading some sexy short story with your partner. Pick the story which suits your thinking and desires, and read it to her.

6. Many girls feel insecure about their own look and body figure resulting in low confidence. When your partner feels insecure, it is almost impossible to get her in mood. To increase your chance, tell her how beautiful she looks as you touch her body or between kisses. This truth he boost her confidence and there is possibility that she will XXXXXXX you with her sexy mood.

7. To be a better kisser, start very gently and move on slowly to more passionate kisses. You can start by barely touching your lips against her cheeks, and then touch your lips with her lips followed by tongue and deep exploration of mouth.

8. Generally women prefer soft, tender touches and strokes all over body before they get aroused completely.

9. Most of the women love foreplay and it is necessary to devote enough time for same. The foreplay may include holding her face, caressing her hair, kissing her cheeks, seeing into her eyes, or rubbing her shoulders and neck.

10. Room ambiance which includes turning off the television, dimming the lights, feeding your dog, turning up your thermostat, taking out the trash and changing the dirty sheets.

I hope these steps will make her in mood and you will enjoy your love making session.
If you have more questions feel free to write back to me. I will be glad to assist you.
Thanks and regards
Dr Ashok Kumar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad
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Follow up: Dr. Ashok Kumar (11 hours later)
Thank you so much I have one more question doc she is a virgin and she will be afraid of first inter course so how could i tell her or convince her and make her loose virginity for me?
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Answered by Dr. Ashok Kumar (9 hours later)
Brief Answer:
That depends on understanding between both of you

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for reverting back to me with positive feedback.

Since you made mind to have sex with your virgin girl friend it is better to allow her to make her mind. I hope you care for her and this will help her to make mind to have sex with you. Many of girls want to remain virgins because they are religious or they have belief that virginity is meant ONLY for her husband.

You need to be faithful with her and should have commitment for long term relationship or taking the relationship to higher level (marriage).
Other than this you need to explain her her that there is slight pain due to rupture of hymen membrane.

Hope this answers your question. If you do not have any more questions you can close the question with ratings. If you have more questions in future feel free to post it directly to me. I will be glad to help you.
Thanks and regards
Dr XXXXXXX Kumar
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Brief Answer: Take this 10 step process Detailed Answer: Dear XXXXXXX Thanks for using healthcaremagic. I read your query and understand that you have very genuine query which has no straight forward answers. We all know that male species are commonly genitally focused, in contrast to women for them the sex is full mind and body experience. In other q words for men, sex is an emergency, and no matter how occupied they are, can be ready in two minutes. In contrast to men, women take time to initiate but once they got aroused they fire equally with men. To get your partner in mood you can follow this 10 step process. 1. Prepare her for mind blowing sexual encounter by telling what you will do to her tonight either through a mail or keeping a hand written piece of paper at a place where she is likely to notice. You can ask her to prepare her by wearing favorite lingerie of her. 2. You can ask her to bring her bad girl attitude by whispering in her ear or can ask her to become stripper for you. 3. While being in bed with your partner do not allow her to get distracted from erotica of the moment. To keep her attention you can bring her in front of the life size mirror in bed room and tell her to see what you are going to do with her. It is always better to become bad guy in bed room by verbally describing every act of foreplay before you do it actually. You can initate the right moment by kissing her shoulders and neck as you rub your palms against her clothed body. The removing of clothes should be in graded manner one by one and there is better to stop before you remove her panties. Direct hands of your partner for your own arousal. It is possible that within minutes she will be begging for love making with you. 4. Ask her to describe her fantasies to you through mail or post card to you. Encourage her to tell them in detail. The intimacy that arises following such revelation will be sexually arousing for her. 5. Try reading some sexy short story with your partner. Pick the story which suits your thinking and desires, and read it to her. 6. Many girls feel insecure about their own look and body figure resulting in low confidence. When your partner feels insecure, it is almost impossible to get her in mood. To increase your chance, tell her how beautiful she looks as you touch her body or between kisses. This truth he boost her confidence and there is possibility that she will XXXXXXX you with her sexy mood. 7. To be a better kisser, start very gently and move on slowly to more passionate kisses. You can start by barely touching your lips against her cheeks, and then touch your lips with her lips followed by tongue and deep exploration of mouth. 8. Generally women prefer soft, tender touches and strokes all over body before they get aroused completely. 9. Most of the women love foreplay and it is necessary to devote enough time for same. The foreplay may include holding her face, caressing her hair, kissing her cheeks, seeing into her eyes, or rubbing her shoulders and neck. 10. Room ambiance which includes turning off the television, dimming the lights, feeding your dog, turning up your thermostat, taking out the trash and changing the dirty sheets. I hope these steps will make her in mood and you will enjoy your love making session. If you have more questions feel free to write back to me. I will be glad to assist you. Thanks and regards Dr Ashok Kumar