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How to check if hymen is intact?

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Posted on Wed, 18 May 2016
Question: I have had sex with my bf before 4 yrs. I was bleeding at third time.. Some more amount of blood came..it took half an hour to stop completely. now am going to get married to other person. I am worried if i will bleed at first night during our inter course? Then only they will think i am a virgin.. Please suggest
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Answered by Dr. Richa Agarwal (32 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
No it is not mandatory.

Detailed Answer:
Hello dear,
Thanks for the query.
I have gone through your history and understand your concerns.
Yes,it is only a myth that if you bleed on first night then you are virgin otherwise not .
Usually hymen can be tear due to so many causes like sports activities, horse riding, tampoon etc.
So there is no need to worry about it.
If you will not bleed on first night then no need to worry about it.
And never accept your past in front of him and forget your past and enjoy your happy married life.
Hope found useful, feel free to discuss more information.
Good luck.
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Richa Agarwal (1 hour later)
What should i do if he ask me directly whether i had a sex before ?
And is there any possibility to bleed at our intercourse?
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Answered by Dr. Richa Agarwal (9 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Just said no.

Detailed Answer:
Hi,
If he asked directly whether you had sex or not then straight forward said no,because nobody accept the fact.
And believe me there is nothing which can prove it whether you had sex in past.
So for your happy married life,never say the truth.
Yes,you can bleed also.
Hope found useful.
Good luck.
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Richa Agarwal (21 minutes later)
So i will bleed for sure or it is also not a Mandatory? Because i am worried a lot about this.. If i bleed i will feel better that he will not think bad about me..
I will bleed for sure??
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Answered by Dr. Richa Agarwal (4 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
That is not mandatory.

Detailed Answer:
Hello dear,
The bleeding is not always occur after first interaction.
And do not worry about it, he will not feel bad about it.
Please do not think so much about it and do not have any guilt about it and enjoy your married life.
Hope found useful.
Good luck.
Regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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How to check if hymen is intact?

Brief Answer: No it is not mandatory. Detailed Answer: Hello dear, Thanks for the query. I have gone through your history and understand your concerns. Yes,it is only a myth that if you bleed on first night then you are virgin otherwise not . Usually hymen can be tear due to so many causes like sports activities, horse riding, tampoon etc. So there is no need to worry about it. If you will not bleed on first night then no need to worry about it. And never accept your past in front of him and forget your past and enjoy your happy married life. Hope found useful, feel free to discuss more information. Good luck. Regards