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How to check if hymen is intact?

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Posted on Mon, 16 May 2016
Question: Hello...i had sex with ex bf 1 year back he left me and i will be heading for arrange marriage after 2 years...will my husband get to know that i m not virgin? How do i hide? Recently i went to gynac for infection while inspecting vagina she asked me whether i had sex as she could see inside my vagina clealy...i m really worried.plz help
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Answered by Dr. S Patra (17 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Yes, your husband may know loss of virginity but quite difficult.

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX

Thanks for writing to us. Followings are my comments:

1) Your husband CAN determine (but NOT always) loss of virginity during sexual intercourse after marriage if you had involved in coitus frequently or quite often in the past few years.

2) However, it is quite difficult to determine virginity if there is only 2-3 times sexual intercourse in the past. Hymen rupture is NOT an essential criteria to confirm loss of virginity. It may be ruptured by other means (like fingering, masturbation, riding, cycling etc) without sex.

3) You can't hide this by own. If you really want hymen as a proof of virginity, then you should consult with your gynecologist for hymenoplasty. It will be worthwhile sometimes.

Hope, I have answered your query. Wish your good health and take care.

For future query, you can directly approach me through

http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/Funnel?page=askDoctorDirectly&docId=63326

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Naveen Kumar
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Follow up: Dr. S Patra (21 minutes later)
Sir i had intercourse 9 times...and i cant do the surgery...will it be possible to hide virginity? Or will he get to know?
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Answered by Dr. S Patra (11 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
No way to hide. He may know if sexually active previously.

Detailed Answer:
Hello,

Thanks for follow up query.

You CAN'T hide your loss of virginity by any means (without surgery). It is natural thing to rupture hymen during repeated time intercourse.

If your husband was previously sexually active, then there is QUITE possibility to know your loss of virginity during sexual intercourse.

If penis is easily entered without any difficulty (due to laxity of your vagina), then he (if NOT sexually active previously) may doubt about your virginity.

Hope, it helps for your information. Good luck.
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How to check if hymen is intact?

Brief Answer: Yes, your husband may know loss of virginity but quite difficult. Detailed Answer: Hello XXXXXXX Thanks for writing to us. Followings are my comments: 1) Your husband CAN determine (but NOT always) loss of virginity during sexual intercourse after marriage if you had involved in coitus frequently or quite often in the past few years. 2) However, it is quite difficult to determine virginity if there is only 2-3 times sexual intercourse in the past. Hymen rupture is NOT an essential criteria to confirm loss of virginity. It may be ruptured by other means (like fingering, masturbation, riding, cycling etc) without sex. 3) You can't hide this by own. If you really want hymen as a proof of virginity, then you should consult with your gynecologist for hymenoplasty. It will be worthwhile sometimes. Hope, I have answered your query. Wish your good health and take care. For future query, you can directly approach me through http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/Funnel?page=askDoctorDirectly&docId=63326 Regards,