Question: ok,here is my delima,my husband found out he had lung cancer,he went to ,sister of mercy and began treatments he recieved 1 kemo treatment after which he went to radioation for 14 out of 3 treatments it was almost a year of running all over the place and getting tested before we were sure it was lung cancer which shocked us no end.we have been married 54 years and are extremely possive of each other.my problem is because he objected to go to the hospital,when i didcovered he had phomonia and a kidney infection ,he dis aboyed and thing they wanted him to do he took the medison but he hated oxigen on his face he didn't keep it on much, they put him on a strong setive,and placed a tube down his throat and feed him food and meds some were during this time period he has a massive stroke,we bothered left right and back side of his head they tryrd to lorrer the sadation to wake him and nothing happened they also lowered his oxigen to see if he could pick up breathing on his own and they said he did ever so slightly breath.and if they gave him asprin to thin the blood he may start bleading.and they wouldn't not be able to stop it.of course you know the next step let him die.i refused.i feel weres there a will theres a way .help me please XXXXXXX XXXXXXX