Hi.
Thanks for your query.
You have unprotected sexual intercourse so you have very high chance of getting pregnant. I can tell you the chances if you let me know when did your wife have her last period and when did you have intercourse. I would also like to know the duration of her cycles, whether they are regular or not.
The pregnancy can be confirmed by a urine pregnancy test only after 1 week after missed period.

Abortion can be done by medical (only by drugs) or surgical (by dilatation and evacuation). As of now, do not consider these options since they are to be done only under the physical supervision of a physician. Do not attempt the medical ways on your own, as it can severe bleeding which can be extremely harmful for your wife.
There is large number of family planning methods. Every method has their own advantages and disadvantages and no methods are best. In case of early married couple if your wife doesn’t have any heart disease, liver disorder, migraine, undiagnosed vaginal bleeding and estrogen dependent tumor in the body then best ways are oral contraceptive pills. Condoms are also a good method to use. An examination and a complete history is needed before a contraceptive pill is started. Please see a gynaecologist for that. Till then, you can consider using condoms.
Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.



Best Wishes,
Dr Sourav Ganguly

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Hi.
Thanks for your query.
Since you had sexual intercourse in the relatively safer period, the chances of pregnancy are relatively less. However, if your wife misses her period, please get a urine pregnancy test done.
Please follow my previous advice step by step.
Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.
If you do not have any clarifications, you can close the discussion and rate the answer and write a review.

Wish you a speedy recovery.

Best Wishes,
Dr Sourav Ganguly

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Hi,

Thanks again for following up.

You seem to have lot of questions. I think you will benefit from sex education programme.

Now, to answer your question:

1. When unprotected sexual intercourse occur in unsafe period of a fertile woman there is high chance become pregnant. Unsafe period is usually between 8-18 days of her menstrual cycle (1st day is calculated from the first day of menstrual bleeding) if her periods are regular and happening once a month.
2. If abortion done in expert hand then chance of side effect in post-operative period and problem during next pregnancy are relatively absent. Though there are chances of miscarriage in the next pregnancy but the percentage is low - between 3.8 -7%.
As per the law of the state, it can be done safely till 12 weeks. This period can be extended up to 20 weeks or 5 months if any contraindication to continue pregnancy is found on ultrasound scan.

3. Abortion has no effects on libido (sexual desire)

4. Circumcision is not an essential procedure for good health. It just smoothen your sexual performances by reducing pain.

5. Viagra prolongs penile erection; but doesn't increase desire. If you have less desire consult a psychiatrist as you then need detailed evolution for the proper diagnosis.

6. Differences between them are the type of material used and presence of lubricating fluid. If you suffer with pain during intercourse, I think lubricant type would benefit you. Watch out for allergies though.

Hope I have answered your query. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help.
If you do not have any clarifications, you can close the discussion and rate the answer and write a review.

Wish you a speedy recovery.

Best Wishes,
Dr Sourav Ganguly

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