Question: hello, i will go straight to the question, i am a very conservative guy, i had only one sexual intercourse in my life and that was two years and a half ago exactly (september 2009), that sexual act was with a 19 years old a girl i knew in the university, we had foreplay the whole night and at a very late time she asked me if i had a condom and i said yes, she said lets do it, i always wanted to stay virgin till marriage but i got tempted, i tried to put the condom(first time ever) and i was not hard enough i could not get hard after all that long time of foreplay so after stimulating my penis with my hand i got it semihard, i put the condom and i tried to penetrate her, i dont even know if i put inside or not!!! thats how unexperienced i am and after few seconds i came, i checked and my condom had already fallen, so i was not sure what happened!!! few weeks after i had severe diarrhea for one week and it was gone after that i never experienced anything again! till last march 2011 (thats one year and a half after that episode) i had a badddd cold during a travel and i had swollen lymph nodes but no fever or anything else at all, at that time i already totally forgot about that act and i never had any sexualy relationships after that at all, but for that cold i took a course of azithromycin but my nodes stayed swollen for almost 11 months i thought so because every few days i would feel some pain (nothing severe) on one side when i swallow and i noticed swollen glands under my armpits for almost same amount of time.
my question is? could those be signs of hiv? i am very worried and to be honest i dont have the courage to get checked, this idea is killing me. in general i am a very healthy guy, i exercise and i gained like 10 pounds in the last year, the only thing is that i have high blood pressure but it is controlled with a norvasc and diovan that i take daily. i am 32 years old now. i hope u can help me because that idea of having hiv from a stupid one night that i was not even planning to make go to that extent is killing me. thank u!