Thanks for your query.Premature ejaculation
is diagnosed when ejaculation time is less than 3 Min, or both partners are not satisfied with sex. Let me know ejaculation time in your case. Do not worry much method of masturbation
Some bend in penis is common, let me know bend in penis is causing problem in establishing physical relation. In that case surgery may be needed by urosurgeon.
Premature ejaculation (PE) is common problem and depends on multiple factors like:
*Psychological factors: most common. The psychological factors may include stress, performance anxiety and depression
*Medical causes: Reflex activity of ejaculatory system, thyroid
and neurological causes.
Following steps will be helpful for treatment:
-Treatment of above conditions (if present) after examination.
-Start jogging in morning as it reduces stress and performance anxiety.
- Try distracting yourself when you feel you are about to ejaculate. Take a XXXXXXX breath and stay relaxed during intercourse.
- Do not worry about performance and talk to your partner openly about any apprehensions if you have. Conversation with partner during sex also delay ejaculation.
- Stop-start or squeeze-pause technique- In stop start technique, near ejaculation withdraw your penis from your partner and relax and think about something else. In squeeze- pause technique, squeeze the end or the tip of the penis for 10 to 20 seconds when you are close to ejaculation and then resume stimulation after withholding for half a minute. Although these technique difficult to master but very effective.
-In many persons woman on top position increases ejaculation time.
- If the symptoms persist then condoms with desensitizing creams (marketed as Kohinoor extra time) and tablet like paroxetine
will be helpful, which you can get after prescription from physician.
-You also need to know that ejaculation time also increases with experience in sex.
Follow all these above methods regularly and your problem will solve in few weeks.
Wish you good health.