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Diabetic. Want To Know Does Masturbation Hamper Sex Life And How To Increase Sperm Count And Get Quick Erection?
Question: Querry to Dr Vaishalee Punj
Madam I am a 26 years old male and a diabetic and unmarried..........I have some questions related to my sexual health, actually I dont feel comfortable to discuss such type of issues with a male consultant....I have done querries with some other doctors also but I need more opinions...............queries are---
1. If daily mastrubation(handjob) is harmful for male.......if not what can be the maximum number of times in a day I can mastrubate.
2. Will it hamper sex life,
3.Please provide me some suggestions to--
a. increase my sex,
b. to increase sperm count,
c.to enlarge my size of penis and
d.quick errection of penis in a natural manner....
4. Can mastrubation prevent premature ejeculation ?
5.Does it lead to erectile dysfunction and impotency ?
6.What are the symptoms of erectile dysfunction and premature ejeculation ?
7.Actually sometimes when I desires to mastrubate at night during sleep , I hardly have good/strong erection due to depression...........at that time I use to put off all my cloths and sleep with complete nudity pulling the foreskin of my penis tightly...............then after some times I get some erection...........is it the right way to have erection..... ? Please provide me some tips to have strong erection quickly so that I need not to be completely nude whenever I wish to mastrubate.
8.What should be actual size of penis ?
9.How to measure the sperm count ?
10. How can I know myself the quality of sperm ?
(Please answer all my question)
Waiting for your reply...................Thanks(Please dont' mind, the questions are medical based only nothing else)
Madam I am a 26 years old male and a diabetic and unmarried..........I have some questions related to my sexual health, actually I dont feel comfortable to discuss such type of issues with a male consultant....I have done querries with some other doctors also but I need more opinions...............queries are---
1. If daily mastrubation(handjob) is harmful for male.......if not what can be the maximum number of times in a day I can mastrubate.
2. Will it hamper sex life,
3.Please provide me some suggestions to--
a. increase my sex,
b. to increase sperm count,
c.to enlarge my size of penis and
d.quick errection of penis in a natural manner....
4. Can mastrubation prevent premature ejeculation ?
5.Does it lead to erectile dysfunction and impotency ?
6.What are the symptoms of erectile dysfunction and premature ejeculation ?
7.Actually sometimes when I desires to mastrubate at night during sleep , I hardly have good/strong erection due to depression...........at that time I use to put off all my cloths and sleep with complete nudity pulling the foreskin of my penis tightly...............then after some times I get some erection...........is it the right way to have erection..... ? Please provide me some tips to have strong erection quickly so that I need not to be completely nude whenever I wish to mastrubate.
8.What should be actual size of penis ?
9.How to measure the sperm count ?
10. How can I know myself the quality of sperm ?
(Please answer all my question)
Waiting for your reply...................Thanks(Please dont' mind, the questions are medical based only nothing else)
Hi
Thanks for posting your query on XXXXXXX
I have read all your questions and I will try to answer those as best as I can.
1. If daily mastrubation(handjob) is harmful for male.......if not what can be the maximum number of times in a day I can mastrubate.
A: Daily masturbation is not harmful for a male. When it starts to hamper in your daily activities, then it can be considered as harmful. Mostly, males find it important to release their energy once in a day or two. Up to 2 – 3 times in a day is still okay.
2. Will it hamper sex life
A: As I said that releasing energy once a day is sufficient for most males. The mode may be sexual intercourse or masturbation. If you think that doing masturbating now will hamper sex life later is also not true.
3.Please provide me some suggestions to—
a. increase my sex,
A: You may describe the concerns that you are having related this question. Increasing sexual desire can be hard. Sexual therapy from a psychiatrist may help.
b. to increase sperm count,
A: Multivitamins especially vitamin B12 and zinc have been shown to increase sperm count. Yoga may help. Some massage therapies have been used by infertility counsellors. Other precautions that you can take are: not to wear tight undergarments, not to sit near heat, eat lots of fruits and green veggies.
c. to enlarge my size of penis
A: Some devices are available that can be used to increase sixe of penis. Contrary to popular belief penis size is not the main factor for sexual satisfaction of female partner as sensory nerves are present only on the outer parts of vagina. So I will suggest not to get worried about it.
d. quick errection of penis in a natural manner....
A: Sexual therapy may help for now. Foreplay helps most. Creating a good environment may halp. Since a history of diabetes may affect the erection, it is important to control blood glucose as much as possible. Medicines like Viagra are available that can be used after consultation with a physician and with precautions.
4. Can mastrubation prevent premature ejeculation ?
A: Yes masturbation may prevent premature ejaculation. Mostly you will have to figure out which method works for you to prevent premature ejaculation.
5. Does it lead to erectile dysfunction and impotency?
A: No it does not have these side-effects.
6. What are the symptoms of erectile dysfunction and premature ejeculation?
A: In Premature ejaculation, ejaculation occurs before the person desires it. In Erectile dysfunction erection is not strong enough to engage in sexual intercourse.
7. Actually sometimes when I desires to mastrubate at night during sleep , I hardly have good/strong erection due to depression...........at that time I use to put off all my cloths and sleep with complete nudity pulling the foreskin of my penis tightly...............then after some times I get some erection...........is it the right way to have erection..... ? Please provide me some tips to have strong erection quickly so that I need not to be completely nude whenever I wish to mastrubate.
A: Mostly psychological factors play a role. It is important to understand that complete erection is not really required for masturbation. Secondly, do not correlate your current experiences with your experiences in the past.
8. What should be actual size of penis ?
A: On average, the size is 2.5 – 3 inch long when flaccid and 4 – 7 inch when erect. There is no normal standards for size though.
9. How to measure the sperm count ?
A: It can be measured by getting a semen analysis done.
10. How can I know myself the quality of sperm?
A: As mentioned in my earlier reply, sperm quality can be known by getting a semen analysis done.
Let me know if you need further clarification.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
Thanks for posting your query on XXXXXXX
I have read all your questions and I will try to answer those as best as I can.
1. If daily mastrubation(handjob) is harmful for male.......if not what can be the maximum number of times in a day I can mastrubate.
A: Daily masturbation is not harmful for a male. When it starts to hamper in your daily activities, then it can be considered as harmful. Mostly, males find it important to release their energy once in a day or two. Up to 2 – 3 times in a day is still okay.
2. Will it hamper sex life
A: As I said that releasing energy once a day is sufficient for most males. The mode may be sexual intercourse or masturbation. If you think that doing masturbating now will hamper sex life later is also not true.
3.Please provide me some suggestions to—
a. increase my sex,
A: You may describe the concerns that you are having related this question. Increasing sexual desire can be hard. Sexual therapy from a psychiatrist may help.
b. to increase sperm count,
A: Multivitamins especially vitamin B12 and zinc have been shown to increase sperm count. Yoga may help. Some massage therapies have been used by infertility counsellors. Other precautions that you can take are: not to wear tight undergarments, not to sit near heat, eat lots of fruits and green veggies.
c. to enlarge my size of penis
A: Some devices are available that can be used to increase sixe of penis. Contrary to popular belief penis size is not the main factor for sexual satisfaction of female partner as sensory nerves are present only on the outer parts of vagina. So I will suggest not to get worried about it.
d. quick errection of penis in a natural manner....
A: Sexual therapy may help for now. Foreplay helps most. Creating a good environment may halp. Since a history of diabetes may affect the erection, it is important to control blood glucose as much as possible. Medicines like Viagra are available that can be used after consultation with a physician and with precautions.
4. Can mastrubation prevent premature ejeculation ?
A: Yes masturbation may prevent premature ejaculation. Mostly you will have to figure out which method works for you to prevent premature ejaculation.
5. Does it lead to erectile dysfunction and impotency?
A: No it does not have these side-effects.
6. What are the symptoms of erectile dysfunction and premature ejeculation?
A: In Premature ejaculation, ejaculation occurs before the person desires it. In Erectile dysfunction erection is not strong enough to engage in sexual intercourse.
7. Actually sometimes when I desires to mastrubate at night during sleep , I hardly have good/strong erection due to depression...........at that time I use to put off all my cloths and sleep with complete nudity pulling the foreskin of my penis tightly...............then after some times I get some erection...........is it the right way to have erection..... ? Please provide me some tips to have strong erection quickly so that I need not to be completely nude whenever I wish to mastrubate.
A: Mostly psychological factors play a role. It is important to understand that complete erection is not really required for masturbation. Secondly, do not correlate your current experiences with your experiences in the past.
8. What should be actual size of penis ?
A: On average, the size is 2.5 – 3 inch long when flaccid and 4 – 7 inch when erect. There is no normal standards for size though.
9. How to measure the sperm count ?
A: It can be measured by getting a semen analysis done.
10. How can I know myself the quality of sperm?
A: As mentioned in my earlier reply, sperm quality can be known by getting a semen analysis done.
Let me know if you need further clarification.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Madam I have sent you an image of my penis..........please let me know if the shape and size of my penis is ok based on my age- 26 years, height-5.8 feet , weight-70 kg..........if not please provide remedies to make it better..............size of my penis is 2.5 inch..........
Thanks
Thanks
Hi again
I have seen the images sent by you and the size and shape of the penis seem to be normal.
In your case, two risk factors are present that may cause or exacerbate erectile dysfunction: diabetes and Tab Acerevelol. The drugs of choice for hypertension in the setting of diabetes are called as ACE-Inhibitors.
I will be better able to help if you describe your symptoms in detail.
When did you start getting the symptoms?
Do you have any other symptoms apart from the above mentioned symptoms?
When were you diagnosed with diabetes and hypertension?
Is your blood sugar level controlled?
For how long you are taking Acerevelol?
When did you get your urine analysis done? If not, then you should get it done.
Waiting for your reply.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
I have seen the images sent by you and the size and shape of the penis seem to be normal.
In your case, two risk factors are present that may cause or exacerbate erectile dysfunction: diabetes and Tab Acerevelol. The drugs of choice for hypertension in the setting of diabetes are called as ACE-Inhibitors.
I will be better able to help if you describe your symptoms in detail.
When did you start getting the symptoms?
Do you have any other symptoms apart from the above mentioned symptoms?
When were you diagnosed with diabetes and hypertension?
Is your blood sugar level controlled?
For how long you are taking Acerevelol?
When did you get your urine analysis done? If not, then you should get it done.
Waiting for your reply.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
I was diagnosed with diabetes 1 year ago and BP 2 years ago but right now both of them are well controlled and always remains in normal level............ no symptoms at all......... I was taking AceRevelol 25/2.5 from last 1 year................is there any possibility of erectile dysfunction ...if the blood sugar and BP level remains normal always..... today I have sent u 2 more images of my penis with little erection whose sizes are 5 inches each...........please comment..........
*Sometime it erects more than 5 inches also and when I mastrubates huge quantity of creamy sperm ejeculates..............actually for last couple of day I feeling depressed due to some personel problem so I was not in sexy mood or couldnot create any sexual feeling.....that's why I fail to sent you complet erected penis.........but as soon as my problems will became I will sent you the proper erected penis...........what should be naturally taken to make sperm more creamy..................
*Sometime it erects more than 5 inches also and when I mastrubates huge quantity of creamy sperm ejeculates..............actually for last couple of day I feeling depressed due to some personel problem so I was not in sexy mood or couldnot create any sexual feeling.....that's why I fail to sent you complet erected penis.........but as soon as my problems will became I will sent you the proper erected penis...........what should be naturally taken to make sperm more creamy..................
Hi again
You are right in saying that the erection is partial. It may be because of stress or erectile dysfunction. I have already discussed the medical causes in my previous reply. You may discuss the side-effects of AceRevelol with your physician. Blood sugars should be in normal range to prevent diabetes induced sexual dysfunction.
In this reply I will give you some suggestions to naturally increase the sperm count. The suggestions are as follows:
1. Maintain a gap of 3 days between two consecutive ejaculations. It will increase your fertility
2. Exercise regularly
3. Diet low in fat and high in protein, vegetables, whole grains is good for controlling diabetes and hypertension and also increase your sperm count
4. Wear loose undergarments
5. Avoid alcohol and smoking
6. Drink pure water and eat hygienic food
7. Relaxation techniques help in reducing stress levels. Relaxation techniques include breathing techniques, meditation and yoga
8. Sperm levels are often high in the mornings.
9. Herbal supplements like Tab Spemen are available in markets that boast of increasing sperm count. Check with an ayurveda specialist if these are good for you.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
You are right in saying that the erection is partial. It may be because of stress or erectile dysfunction. I have already discussed the medical causes in my previous reply. You may discuss the side-effects of AceRevelol with your physician. Blood sugars should be in normal range to prevent diabetes induced sexual dysfunction.
In this reply I will give you some suggestions to naturally increase the sperm count. The suggestions are as follows:
1. Maintain a gap of 3 days between two consecutive ejaculations. It will increase your fertility
2. Exercise regularly
3. Diet low in fat and high in protein, vegetables, whole grains is good for controlling diabetes and hypertension and also increase your sperm count
4. Wear loose undergarments
5. Avoid alcohol and smoking
6. Drink pure water and eat hygienic food
7. Relaxation techniques help in reducing stress levels. Relaxation techniques include breathing techniques, meditation and yoga
8. Sperm levels are often high in the mornings.
9. Herbal supplements like Tab Spemen are available in markets that boast of increasing sperm count. Check with an ayurveda specialist if these are good for you.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Hello madam..........I am going to share an unbeliefable and embarrasing incident happened to me last weak to clearify some of my doubts........its a fact, please donot ignore.....and please keep it confidential.........
** “ A memorable consultation in my life-my Bhabi masturbates my penis”
Last weak I was suffering from a pain in my stomach specially between the areas of the kidney and also some burn in the urine , then I went to consult our family doctor, who is a lady. She is my sister-in-law(wife of my cousin brother) i.e. my Bhabi. She is 34 years old , 8 years older than me and is a very beautiful and cute lady . I told her about my problems, she then asked me to put of my shirt and banian and lay down in the bed of her residencial clinic. Then she examined my whole stomach including upper abdomen for almost 5 minutes. After that she told me that my problem is related to kidney for which she will have to examine my penis so she asked me to remove my pant and underwear completely . I was shocked and asked her loudly “what”, because after all she is my Bhabi I feel shy to became completely nude infront of her. She said,” Please don’t be embarrassed, right now I am not your Bhabi, I am your doctor so please co-operate with me and let me complete my assessment, actually I want to see if the is any infection in your penis”.Then I have changed my feelings taking it in medical terms and agreed to her , wake up from the bed and removed my pant and underwear and slept in the bed again being completely nude. She told me to be relaxed and close my eyes. First of all she examined my knees and legs if there is any swelling . Then she examined my lower abdominal including urinary bladder. After that she started to examine my testicular, prostage and groin without wearing any gloves……she examined it for almost 5 minutes . Then she pull the foreskin of my penis and asked me to cough, I did so……….then she pulled it little bit harder and again asked me to cough.. I did so,suddenly I lose my control laying nude infront of my beautiful Bhabi and some errection takes place ……….. I can’t express how embarresed I was laying down completely nude infront of her….then she started to shake my penis slowly ,I was shocked and opened my eyes ……she stoped for a while and again told me that “please relax and let me concentrate it’s a part of the assessment”. She started again and after 3-4 stroke a very strong errection takes place…she then started to masturbate my penis very harder and faster…….after few minutes a huge quantity of creamy sperm was ejaculated. She then examined the sperm if there is any infection or not. She told me that it’s a medical procedure to see the infection…………at that time I was so embarresed being completely nude infront of my Bhabi and the role played by her with my penis. But during the whole assessment one thing is straing I have noticed that though I was laying completely nude infront of her and she did some sexual experiment on me- touches my penis as well as masturbate it –ejeculated sperm, but I have not seen any sexual excitement on her body language…not even a sexy smile…. she was doing everything normally from the very beginning to the end as if she doing any minor assessment. I found her doing the whole assessment very seriously and with deep concentration .
Here my queries are-------
1. What actually she want to examine ?
2. Is there any such medical procedure ?
3. Does any doctor performs mastrubation for examining sperm or penis ?
4. Usually I hardly get strong errection........but that day I a very strong errection takes place within short time ?....comment
5. How can a doctor performs this type of assessment without wearing gloves ?
** “ A memorable consultation in my life-my Bhabi masturbates my penis”
Last weak I was suffering from a pain in my stomach specially between the areas of the kidney and also some burn in the urine , then I went to consult our family doctor, who is a lady. She is my sister-in-law(wife of my cousin brother) i.e. my Bhabi. She is 34 years old , 8 years older than me and is a very beautiful and cute lady . I told her about my problems, she then asked me to put of my shirt and banian and lay down in the bed of her residencial clinic. Then she examined my whole stomach including upper abdomen for almost 5 minutes. After that she told me that my problem is related to kidney for which she will have to examine my penis so she asked me to remove my pant and underwear completely . I was shocked and asked her loudly “what”, because after all she is my Bhabi I feel shy to became completely nude infront of her. She said,” Please don’t be embarrassed, right now I am not your Bhabi, I am your doctor so please co-operate with me and let me complete my assessment, actually I want to see if the is any infection in your penis”.Then I have changed my feelings taking it in medical terms and agreed to her , wake up from the bed and removed my pant and underwear and slept in the bed again being completely nude. She told me to be relaxed and close my eyes. First of all she examined my knees and legs if there is any swelling . Then she examined my lower abdominal including urinary bladder. After that she started to examine my testicular, prostage and groin without wearing any gloves……she examined it for almost 5 minutes . Then she pull the foreskin of my penis and asked me to cough, I did so……….then she pulled it little bit harder and again asked me to cough.. I did so,suddenly I lose my control laying nude infront of my beautiful Bhabi and some errection takes place ……….. I can’t express how embarresed I was laying down completely nude infront of her….then she started to shake my penis slowly ,I was shocked and opened my eyes ……she stoped for a while and again told me that “please relax and let me concentrate it’s a part of the assessment”. She started again and after 3-4 stroke a very strong errection takes place…she then started to masturbate my penis very harder and faster…….after few minutes a huge quantity of creamy sperm was ejaculated. She then examined the sperm if there is any infection or not. She told me that it’s a medical procedure to see the infection…………at that time I was so embarresed being completely nude infront of my Bhabi and the role played by her with my penis. But during the whole assessment one thing is straing I have noticed that though I was laying completely nude infront of her and she did some sexual experiment on me- touches my penis as well as masturbate it –ejeculated sperm, but I have not seen any sexual excitement on her body language…not even a sexy smile…. she was doing everything normally from the very beginning to the end as if she doing any minor assessment. I found her doing the whole assessment very seriously and with deep concentration .
Here my queries are-------
1. What actually she want to examine ?
2. Is there any such medical procedure ?
3. Does any doctor performs mastrubation for examining sperm or penis ?
4. Usually I hardly get strong errection........but that day I a very strong errection takes place within short time ?....comment
5. How can a doctor performs this type of assessment without wearing gloves ?
Hi again
I can assure you that all the information you have provided will be kept confidential.
I will come specifically to your questions.
1. What actually she want to examine?
A. I am not sure either. You should have asked her this question. Usually the physical examination for erectile dysfunction does involve examination of the external genitalia and surrounding area. Doctors may put their fingers into anal canal, etc to get samples they need. This is the first time I am hearing that a doctor masturbates a patient to get a sample for semen analysis.
2. Is there any such medical procedure?
A. Well, the patient usually masturbates himself and brings up the semen sample for analysis. To get a semen analysis is a correct line of treatment for you.
3. Does any doctor perform mastrubation for examining sperm or penis?
A. This is the first time I am hearing of it. I personally feel it is medically inethical. She did not even explain the procedure to you beforehand.
4. Usually I hardly get strong errection........but that day I a very strong
erection takes place within short time ?....comment
A. At least you now know that you can get a strong erection.
5. How can a doctor performs this type of assessment without wearing gloves ?
A. They are not supposed to do such type of an examination without wearing gloves. Apart from the inappropriate touching one risk is of getting both patient and doctor exposed to germs.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
I can assure you that all the information you have provided will be kept confidential.
I will come specifically to your questions.
1. What actually she want to examine?
A. I am not sure either. You should have asked her this question. Usually the physical examination for erectile dysfunction does involve examination of the external genitalia and surrounding area. Doctors may put their fingers into anal canal, etc to get samples they need. This is the first time I am hearing that a doctor masturbates a patient to get a sample for semen analysis.
2. Is there any such medical procedure?
A. Well, the patient usually masturbates himself and brings up the semen sample for analysis. To get a semen analysis is a correct line of treatment for you.
3. Does any doctor perform mastrubation for examining sperm or penis?
A. This is the first time I am hearing of it. I personally feel it is medically inethical. She did not even explain the procedure to you beforehand.
4. Usually I hardly get strong errection........but that day I a very strong
erection takes place within short time ?....comment
A. At least you now know that you can get a strong erection.
5. How can a doctor performs this type of assessment without wearing gloves ?
A. They are not supposed to do such type of an examination without wearing gloves. Apart from the inappropriate touching one risk is of getting both patient and doctor exposed to germs.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thanks for reoly...........I think now i have some improvement in my erection......I was mastrubating for last four days without nudity..........is it necessery to have very strong erection to satisfy a female during sex......... can penis massage leads to perfect shape and size of penis.........can u prescribe me any oil or oinment for penis massage.............is there any relation between the sperm quality and skin disease.................
Hi again
is it necessery to have very strong erection to satisfy a female during sex?
A. An erection that is strong enough is needed for a successful sexual intercourse.
can penis massage leads to perfect shape and size of penis?
A. It does not have much effect on shape and size of penis
can u prescribe me any oil or ointment for penis massage?
A. oils and ointments for the purpose are available in ayurveda.
is there any relation between the sperm quality and skin disease?
A. Some infections present with both skin disease and infection of prostate etc that can affect the motility and quality of sperms.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
is it necessery to have very strong erection to satisfy a female during sex?
A. An erection that is strong enough is needed for a successful sexual intercourse.
can penis massage leads to perfect shape and size of penis?
A. It does not have much effect on shape and size of penis
can u prescribe me any oil or ointment for penis massage?
A. oils and ointments for the purpose are available in ayurveda.
is there any relation between the sperm quality and skin disease?
A. Some infections present with both skin disease and infection of prostate etc that can affect the motility and quality of sperms.
Regards
Dr Vaishalee
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