Question: If i have HIV is it possible for me to infect my girlfriend if a condom is used the entire time of intercourse and there is no break but just before sex i used the head of my penis to stimulate her clit for 5 seconds?

My concern is that i recently had sex with someone i just met before i was with my girl and everything was covered but i had a razor bump on the base of my penis that might not have been covered by the condom. Would this particular encounter putme at risk?

Your answer does help me and thank you for being as thorough as you can. 2 weeks after that encounter a few things happend. Day 1. Felt a small itch just above my naval but did not notice any redness. Day 2. Started with some sneezing a little bit of a cough and a runny nose. Drinking a lot of water. Still felt a small itch above my naval. Day 3. Excessive runny nose, alot of sneezing, mild to medium coughing. Very thirsty, feels like an insatiable thirst. Constantly drinking water. Still had the small itch but noticed some redness. Day 4. Runny nose and sneezing, mild to medium coughing. Very thirsty, dry mouth and dry lips. Still have the same small itch above my naval. Day 5. Woke up 6 AM with diarrhea and a mild night sweat. The itch part went away but I can still see a small bit of redness. As the day progressed my diarrhea got better and my stool was a bit crumbly and not liquid. Day 6. Woke up around 6am, stool is getting better but still crumbly, coughing and sneezing is very minimal. No sore throat but needed to clear my throat a couple times throughout the day. For some reason I still see a very small amount of redness near the naval, i have to look really hard to see it. Irritates very minimal. So far there are no headaches, no fevers and no sore throat just a mild cough. Day 7 and 8. Feeling a little bit tired and stool is a little bit more solid. Just curious if these would be signs of HIV. I also had an issue with my middle finger, left hand. I will attach images so you can see. My doctor took most of the nail off and said it was "tramatic" Im only asking about my fingernail because i read a couple articles that said that my fingernail issue could be realated to compromised immune system or weak immune system and can be HIV related. My 2 most recent STD test were 5 weeks ago and 6 months ago. Both negative for HIV and everything else. Thank you for taking the time to help me and sorry for having a lot of questions but your expert opinion would be very much appreciated. Thank you

As far as i can remember, i have never had damage to that nail before. Here is a list of my last 2 test dates and the date of what i thought might be a potential exposure to HIV. 06/01/17 HIV negative 01/08/18 HIV negative Date of what i thought would be potential exposure with a woman that is not my girlfriend and i do not know her HIV status 01/17/18. She is who i was with when i had the shaving bump that i was not sure if it was covered by the condom. A condom was used the entire time of intercourse but not during oral. The sex was vaginal only. The shaving bump was not bleeding or an open sore from what i remember. Just a shaving bump. The symptoms that I had listed in my earlier message started 16 days after I was with this new person I had never been with before. Thank you again for addressing my concerns on this matter Dr Dede. I was thinking of re-testing this week since it will be a month from the time i was with this new person that i don't know her HIV status and then maybe again at the three-month mark.What is your suggestion and what do you think my chances are of being HIV positive?