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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hello sir,

when i masturbate, i ejaculate in 10-15 seconds. how to improve on that ?
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hello sir
Doctor :   Iam .
Doctor :   ok
User :   i have some sexual questions sir
Doctor :   Yes proceed please
Doctor :   May i know your age ,marital status?

User :   my age is 26 and i am single
Doctor :   ok

User :   when u was 14 i guess i ejaculate in 2-3 minutes, and it was always decreasing
Doctor :   Ok

User :   why it was decreasing and how to increase this
Doctor :   Premature ejaculation occurs in 85% of married males
Doctor :   That is easy to treat with some simple exercises

Doctor :   And these exercises do involve your sex partner
Doctor :   Since you are unmarried
Doctor :   you can try the technique alone
Doctor :   The technique called start and stop technique
Doctor :   where you stop your genital stimulation just when you feel you are going to ejaculate
Doctor :   And squeezing the glans region
Doctor :   which will take away your stimulation and the feeling
Doctor :   and again you can start stimulating after some time and repaeat this
Doctor :   for 8-10 times
User :   k
Doctor :   This will give you the mental confidence and increase your ejaculating time
Doctor :   This is a great technique developed by Masters and Johnson
Doctor :   Got it
User :   how long will it take to see results, bcoz i am gonna get married in 3 months time, how will my wife feel if i ejaculate in 10-15 second
User :   s
Doctor :   You will get benefits in weeks
Doctor :   provided you practice this for some time
Doctor :   And offcourse the Mental confidence should be there
User :   k, what will be the average time for sex before ejacualtion which will satisfy a girl?
Doctor :   WWW.WWWW.WW
Doctor :   For girls the orgasm time will be from 5- 20 min
Doctor :   Much more than males who will take only 4-5 min
Doctor :   so the most imp thing is the understanding of each others need
Doctor :   Premature ejaculation is believed to be a psychological problem and does not represent any known organic disease involving the male reproductive tract or any known lesions in the brain or nervous system
User :   k, by this method of start and stop, from 10 seconds, how long do u think i can improve
Doctor :   it depends on practice and will power
Doctor :   and definite improvement will be there
Doctor :   Dont worry about that
Doctor :   85-95 of married males have this problem initially
Doctor :   and 95% of them come out successfully
Doctor :   Another method is applying
Doctor :   a anesthetic gel to penis to make it numb
Doctor :   and increase the ejaculating time
Doctor :   Got it
User :   k, can u explain me that process in detail, i stop when i am about to ejaculate, what do u mean by squeeze the glans ?
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   The female partner should slowly begin stimulation of the male and should stop as soon as he senses a feeling of excessive excitement that may lead to ejaculatory inevitability.

Doctor :   Then, she should administer a firm compression of the penis just behind the glans, pressing mainly under the penis. This should be uncomfortable but not painful.

Doctor :   Stimulation then should begin again after the male has a feeling that the ejaculation is no longer imminent
Doctor :   The process should be repeated and practiced at least 10 or more times
Doctor :   Most couples find this technique to be highly successful. It can also help the female partner to be more aroused and can shorten her time to climax because it constitutes a form of extended foreplay in many cases.

User :   k, so this is common only ?? after getting married, if i ejaculate in 10-15 seconds, my wife will not feel bad right ??
Doctor :   Got it
User :   s
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   But you can increase the time as i said
Doctor :   So dont worry
Doctor :   And this is a very common problem
User :   k, bcoz i am postponding my marriage bcoz i thought my wife will feel bad about me if i ejaculate in 10-15 seconds
Doctor :   even drugs are available like SSRI
Doctor :   No need.Be confident
Doctor :   You are young and energetic
Doctor :   And this is a very simple common problem
Doctor :   Mostly psychological
Doctor :   No organic cause
Doctor :   No recommended surgical treatment exists for premature ejaculation

Doctor :   So dont worry
User :   k, at times my penis erection is not stable, during the course of masturbation it gets to half erected stage if i am tensed, this is also physocological only is it ??
Doctor :   Try the techniques i described
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   So first have confidence in you
User :   k, actually i will have to ask u another important question\
Doctor :   Premature ejaculation is believed to be a psychological problem and does not represent any known organic disease involving the male reproductive tract or any known lesions in the brain or nervous system
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Go ahead
User :   i always believe that i have nerve weekness, because i am always nervous, sweat heavily on the palms of my hands and legs and i feel some kind of numbeness or pulling on the palms of my legs
User :   why is that ?
Doctor :   If you want i can help you to get an expert opinion

Doctor :   ok
User :   yes please
User :   what do u feel about it
User :   do u see any symptoms
Doctor :   You are having anxiety and bit of stress
Doctor :   May i know your occupation?
User :   i am a software engineer
Doctor :   WWW.WWWW.WW
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   you can get some psychotherapy and ciunselling

Doctor :   if you feel really worried
Doctor :   But i feel you first give atry fro yourself
Doctor :   and you can come out of it
Doctor :   try some relaxation exercises yoga meditation etc
Doctor :   And forget about the sexual worries
Doctor :   it is a simple problem
User :   k, but why i feel a pulling kind of thing or numbness on the palms of legs? bcoz always i shake my legs and one of my freind asked me whether u have nerver weekness? BTW what are the symptoms of nerve weekness
Doctor :   for expert opinion

Doctor :   use our website
Doctor :   and pay for the specialist
Doctor :   they will get back to you via phone or email as you prefer
Doctor :   Did you get it?

User :   k, final question, how to improve on my erection
Doctor :   Try the techniques
Doctor :   i said earlier
User :   k
Doctor :   it will help
User :   k
Doctor :   and can geta medical aid if necessary
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting..Bye for now...
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