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What is the cause and treatment for depression? - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 10-Oct-2014
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Practicing since : 2002
Answered : 106 Questions
User:hi
Doctor:
Please proceed with your query
User:are you a pcychaitrist?
Doctor:I am a physician and i can help you within my expertise.
User:I am currently very depressed
Doctor:Psychiatrist are not available on live chat.
User:sometime feels commiting suicide
User:ok
User:I got married last year
User:in july 2013
Doctor:Ok
User:but my marriage life has not been smooth
User:it has gone from bad to worse
User:currently my life has left me and living separelty
User:wife*
User:it has been almost three months now
User:her compliant was that I used to shout at her
Doctor:Ok
User:I admit sometime I used to..
User:but that was natural
Doctor:Ok
User:till date she has not consummated the marrriage
User:she had not consummated the marriage
User:for first 8 months I was not even alllowed to touch her
User:I never had got a chance to have intercourse with her
User:and that was the reason of my frustration
User:u there?
Doctor:Yes, I am going through your post.
Doctor:Please proceed.
User:ok
User:she used to say ...these things are not important
User:we should spend time together for 2 years and if we are compatible then we will do it
User:it was an arranged marriage
User:these silly arguments were coming as a shocker to me
User:we both work in leanding MNCs
User:somtime in XXXXXXX
User:i was upset about it
Doctor:Ok
User:and i complained to my parents
User:then she called her frined in my house and he fought with me
User:after that she left my home in anger
User:her parents too supported her move
User:since july 2014 till date
User:she is living separelty
Doctor:Ok
User:now her dad, mom and brother are threatening me to false implicate in domestic violence and dowry act
User:as they belive that I was rude to her
User:I never ever demanded dowry or beat her
User:now I am utterly frustrated
User:I dont underatand what is my fault
User:her behavior was also secretive
User:she never used to share her XXXXXXX faceboook, gmail , bank info
User:etc
User:did not want to go outside with me
User:I feel giving her divorce
User:but feels if they implicate my family
User:then I will feel responsible for all this mess
User:I dont know what to do
User:I was in XXXXXXX
Doctor:Ok
User:now recently came to XXXXXXX
User:so that I can get out of that trauma
User:but here too I am very depressede
Doctor:Have you considered family counselling?
User:i even asker her to come and fogert the past
User:I will give the time u need to settle
User:but she refused
User:i sometime doubt her fidelity
User:I lover her but she hardly loves me
User:she does nt care about me and this troubles me a lot
User:I am totaly confused about her mindset and character
User:sometime feels unwanted , rejected
User:i used to be a very happy , easy going , enthusiatic , social guy
User:but this marriage has changed everything
Doctor:I am sorry, but do you really know what your wife is expecting from you.
User:i no longer feel to live
User:feel distracted with my family and job
User:I know u would give me some intelligent advice
User:but they are of no use to me
Doctor:How can I help you in this case?
User:u said I am a physician and i can help you within my expertise.
User:so what does your expertise say
Doctor:As I understand you currently have symptoms of depression and the cause seems to be family issues.
User:thank you
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